Emotion Flow

Lay Report: Instant fuck

2010-10-02T05:06:00.002+02:00

It all started with simple Hello... She was wearing high heel boots, I always get a boner when I see a bitch in good high heels. It's a turn on. Just imagne, those bitches are putting themselfs trough all the hassle of feet pain in order to grab our attention. Hello is powerful, keep that in mind.

This was true hunt. I needed to fulfill my need for fresh new pussy, well she wasn't fresh, she was milf. After hello, we started watching at each other. I figured out she's choosing, so I step the fuck up. Ask her directly for the number. My game lacks smoothness, but there is tons of agresivnes to back me up. We exchange numbers. She asks me to join her in some shitty place where she works.

Somehow my hand is on her ass and we start kissing. She panics because some customers were passing by. She took my number and we agree on meeting up later, when we finish our jobs. On the way out she freaks me out by asking me to borrow her 500 dinars, which is around 6-7$. I was like what the fuck? I took it personally but I didn't show it.

When we meet up, she asks me again!!! I am like WHAT THE FUCK??? I tell her I got cash at my place and that we're going there so she can make me some coffee... This bitch is pushing it. I am running in my head thinking how I would beat the shit out of her. Whenever there is some spoiled bitch around me I have nasty fantasies of beating the shit out of them. And this one is pushing it.

On the way to my place she pushes it even further. She asks me for Ice Cream WHAT THE FUCKING FUCK? You HAVE NO IDEA how much self control I had there. There I knew, this bitch is skank/scrub and totally not worth my team and above all she needs hard punishment, just after I lay my pipe.. I keep it cool and I say I have ice cream at my home, which I don't.

At my home I was struck with "new pussy" greed, but I cover it with good story. We talk tons about horoscope and I check her natal chart. I am not faking it, I like talking about those kind of shit :) She wants to eat, well I don't mind my guests eating at my house. I get her to make us sandwiches and coffee. After we've ate, we open up a botlle of wine and listen to some rock music and there my seduction begins.

I got turned on by the control I managed to get there. My hand was up her legs and I was touching her over pants, while she tries to resist me, but I push trough, she can't fight my hand, but it's resistance, for the sake of resistance. I repeat her to relax, while singing the songs, that are going in the background into her ear. Words are quite trippy. And I am literally whispering them into her ear, while I fiercly go after her pussy, and she has no way of pushing my hand, excepting moving away from me.

At one point, when she was so turned up I leave her totally. I know she's down to fuck and she's cock hungry bitch. It's about time to switch roles you fucking slut. I lay back and relax, singing the rock songs and kinda mock her, because fun is on my side and she needs it now... So there comes the magic sentence: "Do you have condoms?" Ofcourse I do, I wouldn't call you at my home if I didn't have em...

This bitch knows to Market herself. Her clothes aren't expensive, but they are very well matched, from head to toe. Colors fit with each other and her parfume is okay. Her clothes are perfectly covering her body flaws, that you can see only when you get her naked. I nail her down good and I am dominating the shit out of her in bed. I was fingering her for about 15 minutes. I am sipping game all over, while fucking her, how it's destiny that we've met. But it doesn't seem like it gets to her. Half of the time she doesn't hear me. I force her to watch me in the eyes, while I bone her. Calling her litlle girl and claiming her pussy my property, just moments ago before she cums, and than I stop, but I didn't get the effect that I wanted. Somehow I am not sure how I didn't get in her head that deep. I was controling the pussy, she was subjected to all my game, but I didn't cut it. I guess I didn't get enough of her life story to get into her head, just into her other soft parts. Just before I fuck her, she tells something that this is one time thing. Suit yourself...

Well it wasn't worth it anyway, she wasn't team material. With kinda sloppy body for 37 year old. She has far worse body than my MILF, but still bangable. And nice feet, with nailpolish... Huge for me. I fuck her for about an hour and at the end I fill up her mouth. She blew me quite good. Than she mentions how she needs to get back to the city center, so she can give back the money at the pool club, which is just beside her job. She also asked me to take her home... Damn, she's the spoiled bitch. Anyway I reach the place where she works, pull over, open her the door and just tell her: "GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY CAR!"

She stares at me, accepts it kinda stupidly calm, leaves the car and doesn't even shut the door. She didn't say a word. Just watching me in the eyes like it was most normal thing in the world.... People are strange... And different...

Putting my priorities back on the game!

2010-09-11T10:12:00.004+02:00

I was focused on solving some really important issues in my life. And now when that is set, I have decided to get back to the game.

Being a player is about being the game itself. Maybe it sounds to esotherical, but you need to know your path and you need to know what kinds of sacrifices you are ready to make in order to BECOME a PLAYER. Not a silly ass shit PUA, not new gay Mystery... It's about becoming a real man. Sophisticated real man...

Some time passed since I was investing my time in dates and quite some time since my last field report. Switched my focus on something else, just so I could come back stronger, stronger than ever... And I will continiue this curve in the time to come.

Because being in the game will lead you eventually to a plateau, so you need to work on multiple things about yourself. For me it's getting back to regular working out.

Just got back from a journey and funny thing is, how much you change quickly, when you change your every day routine. That is why I will always recommend traveling in order to cleanse your soul.

I am still with 2 girls on my team, but... I must admit, I got bored of sex with them, playkating them around was now only to satisfy my ego, instead of bringing me the results that would make me feel good about myself.

Also you have to realize and KNOW, that change must come first from WITHIN YOURSELF in order to manifest on the outside. You must know that, the girls you meet and fuck, won't make you feel desirable, if you don't threat yourself as desirable person... You need to gap that void within yourself if you want to move faster in your game. Confidence is the key, AND I CAME WITH SHITLOADS OF IT! :)

Last night I went out, finally, after quite a while and was quite happy. Wasn't talking and texting with my bitches as I usually do. I had game time, happy hunting time... Being relaxed and smiling a lot... Simply being carefree gets you a lot of attention and a lot of choosing signals.

I reacted, I reacted as mean motherfucker that I am.. First there's this bitch with her boyfriend, keeps eye fucking me. Boyfriend is some faggot, so I know why's she's checking out for a real man... I am not fond of hitting up on girls while they are with their boyfriends, that PUA bullshit... So I just call her out on that.

-"Why are you looking at me when you are with your man?"

She gets ashamed... As she should be... Would you like to have a girlfriend like that?

Getting eye contact from a cross the club. Approach the girl, ask her for dance, but since the music that night wasn't my kind of thing and it got really hot, I just went straight for the number. She rejects... Well I ain't gonna chase you girl... You had your chance.. For the best cock of your life... :)

I am just trying to demonstrate you the attitude...

Don't give up the fight, keep playing player...

She crashed my car... I crashed her pussy...

2010-06-30T19:14:00.002+02:00

So it's late night and I am spitting game advice in front of friends house. BAAAAAAAAAAM, something hits me from behind of my car. I am like WTF? And I see a car passing by in front of me. I instantly turn on the engine and start to chase the mother fucker who did it, without stopping. I was so eager to beat the crap out of him, and worse of all, at that momment I didn't know what happened to my baby (reffering to the automobile). And I chase and on the first traffic light I cut the car that hit me and go out.

I am furious and than I see this bitch. She freaked the fuck out when she saw me. I guess she could have pissed her pants. She's drunk... And I am dissapointed, I was expecting some dude for heavy bashin`...

Anyway I approach the car and hold my cell phone. And I am like, I ain't gonna call the cops, cause if they come, she's never gonna drive again. And in general I don't like cops, it's organic and it's mutual, between me and them... She says she wants to pay, I say okay, easier for me. Give me your id/drivers licence. And she ain't got ANY with herself. LoL it wouldn't be fun at all for her if I called her cops, drunk bitch, who made an accident, without ID and without drivers licence...!!!!... She gives me her phone number, but since she didn't have id, nor drivers licence, I decide to go to her place, so I know where she lives, so I know where can I come to collect my cash...

We come to her place, somehow, she drives like a freak, plus she's drunk... Somehow we reach her place and she invites us for coffee.... We talk there, exchange some info, but there couldn't be any chemistry, cause my friend is there... So I keep it cool... She makes us coffee and I start getting her lifestory... She has a boyfriend... Sorry for the dude...

So important part of the story is, that it isn't her car, it's her brothers instead.... So we chil a bit and make an agreement that we'll meet for a coffee, so we arrange, when she's gonna give me cash back. Estimated damage is around 200$ and since I have insurance for the car, they are gonna cover it (in Serbia insurance is not usual thing - so I am gonna charge her and insurance). She kept calling me each day after that, to remind me that she's gonna give me my cash back.

We meet, sit in the park and in the middle of her blabbering I say: "Are we gonna kiss now or what?" - She's like I don't know, but it's to late, my tongue is already down her throat... And she like it.... So we chill and talk and cudlle and talk some more, and she's looseing it. I felt like a fucking vampire, I got a hold on this.... Her judgment is getting clouded, while I remain calm and chilled...

At some point later, I bust her nut over her pants.... And I do it, just the way it should be. From meeting me, till having crazy ass orgasm, it elapsed less than hour and a half. I could lead that bitch home that very date, but stability of the team comes first and I had other arrangments... So I pass that sex for that day and ...

...and next day, things happend spontanously... I called her, asked her if she's gonna drop by to my place, she acepts. Pick her up get to my crib and after playing with cat, I fuck the shit out of her... She didn't want to blow me, so I didn't allow her to cum.

This was interesting thing, but I still need to get my money back.

She ain't got enough material for the team, this will rather be, one time thing....

My eyelids are popping down, I will finish the story tommmwp

Need to update, I fell asleep last night. She doesn't meet the criteria to become a team member, so I played it smooth all the way. I was very very unhappy, that she didn't want to blow me. I mean what the fuck, that's not submissive at all.

She wanted to go on top, but I haven't let her and forced her to stay down, while fucking the shit out of her. I guess she was kinda confused.

Now question for Supremo about mindfucking. How can I mind fuck, when bitches can't hear a thing when I fuck them. They completely loose it and can't understand a word I am saying... I just stoped couple of times to prevent her from cumming, she already had her share to fast day before that, when we went out on a date... Made her watch me in the eyes and asked her a question couple of times, but nowhere near close my usual mindfucking.

She ain't that pretty, tough she is decently handsome (but ain't better than my milf). Plus I believe she ain't submissive enough and I don't want to waste too much energy on breaking down the bitch that ain't worth it. So she sensed that and constantly asked questions, am I gonna leave her, is this one time only? And shit like that. How she knew, I got no idea... But I kept it smooth and pretended that I am symp and gave her a ride home, so I don't need to spend the night with her.... I get further details of her life story... And sad life story it is. Quite a cliche for my country.... Heard quite a lot of different stories... And this one would give you the creeps...

Hope you enjoyed the report, I sure want to follow up with new one night stands

Tune your alarm!

2010-06-17T04:09:00.002+02:00

Lately I completely went off the line with myself. Spending way too much time in front of computer, stopped working out and devoted myself to work and generally betrayed myself with crappy behavior... When shit like that happens, your game goes down. Period.

Tough I kept shitloads of my fake confidence and became blind to things that are happening around me, instead of being a wolf in the sheep skin...

So I got a date with some fancy dressed chick and I fucked it up. Getting her life story was easy part, because she was talking shitloads, but instead of listening... I was preocuppied with my ego and how I got good pussy instead of trying to figure her out... We made out right off the bat and there was great intimacy between us. I knew when energy fell down and I failed at selling the dream. Seems like that the best teacher is experience, and I could have tons of it for the past 2 months, but I've decided to stare at this ugly monitor....

The problem was when I didn't want to pay for the other drink (I paid for the first one). Issue is not that I didn't want to pay the drink, it's that I didn't play it off with words the way I should as a player....

At least I got back into the game, because past 2 months I didn't move my ass from this stupid computer.

Need to get back on track, since at the momment I am down on one bitch, instead of having three...

Need to regain my motivation somehow to wordly things instead of blabbing about internet marketing 90% of the time.

When we separated, I told her to wake me up tommorow, she said cool and confirmed the time. Than couple of hours later...
This message is the reason why I am writing this post:

"Since probably when I start to work tommorow, I will forget to wake you up, so tune your alarm. And I don't want you to put your hopes up, I am not gonna fake you around. I didn't like some things that are important to me, and beside all of that you are younger, sorry."

(sorry for loose translation, it's kinda hard) I replied:

"I think you misjudged me and you're not giving us opportunity to meet better... If you feel that's for the best, okay. If you feel differently, we'll hear from each other. Sweet dreams"

Updating trough June, sorry for my break...

2010-06-08T15:03:00.003+02:00

Lately I spend a lot of time in front of computer. I am starting my own business so I didn't devote myself to the game like I used to... But seems that all the past effort have left a permanent mark on me and my energy.

I am aspiring to become a Dom, but that doesn't mean that I am giivng up on my hunting.

It was in caffee she was sitting with her company and I was with mine. We were looking at each other, she made sure I checked every part of her body. Not bad, she invests in herself.

I leave for the bathroom, guess who follows... My first sentence was asking her # ... I got it. But there is tension, I can feel it in the air, I embrace it and start to move slowly toward her and she says: "Not yet". I am mad at myself, because I didn't finish it, but... It felt right and it wouldn't be my first time to kiss the girl, the moment I meet her, without almost any words...

I am constantly in the flirt, but ain't pursuing chicks... I ain't chasin`, oh no... My time now is really valuable... Scarce... I text her while we seat on separate tables and tell her to make some time for me tonight. She is leaving and says "Aufidersen", good bye on German, kinda rare to hear that...

Than she replies to my text, saying that she can't come tonight...

Than I mindfucked myself, because I became greedy on new pussy. I am literally fucking every day, a couple of times. My bitches show respect, but my ego is playing small games with me as usual... Guess I will have to get used to that, but I am gonna push limits day by day... Growth... You will always mind fuck yourself, until you completely libarate yourself from bullshit that society serves us and programs us... It's a long process...

I made loads of rules and terms for them to obey and I am not bending them a single notch. They are talking to me in plural* *explanation - we use plural when adressing single person, when he is of great importance or an elder. Don't know if you have something like that on English... But it's such a turn on, when someone who's 18 years older than you, speaks to you, like to it's superior, well it's actually true, just need to get used to it and start breathing like a fucking Dom, because that is what I am, and not remain shocked about it.

Ego is my worst enemy. I am bending it to my own will. I guess tons of people don't even recognize when their ego is fucking with them. And when society rules are clouding our judgment and our streghts.

I am womitting on the sight of faggotry and pussyfication of todays men. I see game everywhere, and most of the time I am laughing. Becoming a player comes with it's price. You are in relationships, but somewhere down there in your heart, you know you are by yourself. And there is emotional side of me that wants security, but that is kinda bullshit when you look at it on rational perspective.

True man doesn't need security in a woman, he needs pussy, he provides his own security. I believe that, when I become selfsustaining (e.g stop taking money from parents), my confidence will grow and so will my opportuinites and freedoms.

I just need to mention as well that I am really mad at myself, becuase I stopped going to the gym. I ain't gonna pay for the gym in the future also, but I am gonna make a mini workout place in my own house. Gonna invest into that, and gonna follow P90X program. Nutrition AND workouts...

Till next time... Stay true to the game, and game will stay true to you!

My graduation to player level!

2010-05-04T01:19:00.003+02:00

I haven't been writing for a while, but...

...I've got some great news and need to keep track on my progress and keep you guys updated!!!

Third team member, better control over entire team, better leadership, less bitch assness over all... Great ammount of power in all 3... My personal progress is skyrocketing and I am getting into it.

I also gained a higher level in my self confidence and it has real basis. I tuned in my mindfucking skills and I am getting everything my way.

I have a feeling that from this point onward I am going to start swapping team members on regular basis in constant recycling for new ones.

I booked friday and saturday for my biggest issue, CLUBS.

MILF started buying things for me, so I can sense also first impressions of macking. Nothing expensive, but that's a start and good indicator, that I am doing a good job.

I started taking control over my EGO and on that I am very proud. I am not getting irritated anymore and I am way more relaxed than I used to be. I don't put any more pressure on myself.

One of the things that I am really proud as well is that I see true bitches bullshit that they put out in the air. I learned to respect game of woman also!

All in all, I fell like I am becoming imense force, just because I can take control over myself, unlike other people. Finally I know that I am advanced enough that my dating advice actually counts. :)

Lessons from PIMP Game

2010-04-09T17:18:00.004+02:00

Yo, yo, players, sup? I brought you up this valuable info from Tariq Nasheed as a preview of his book. I know you'll find this lesson valuable, so stay tuned for more precious info that will be brought to you on emotionflow13.blogspot.com

1) A pimp is always right.

2) Don't ever let your ho check you.

3) Get your hoes to invest as much as they
can as fast as they can. A pimp can't
keep a ho forever, and she will "blow"
when he least expects it.

4) A good pimp doesn't have to beat on his
hoes. If he feels that he needs to get
violent with his girls, that means he
needs to tighten up his game.

5) Get the money before the "honey."
Don't accept sex from your ho until she
has reached her quota. Purse first, ass
last.

6) Never be at a loss for words.

7) Always keep a cold, serious demeanor
with your hoes. Most good pimps rarely
smile, because some hoes can take this
as a sign of weakness.

8) Your hoes are never equal to you.

9) The more money the ho gives, the
longer she stays. So always give
yourself a raise.

10) Keep your thoughts a mystery. Never let
your hoes know what you are thinking.
The more you change your demeanor,
the more she will be intrigued with
trying to figure you out.

Now imagine this ho, brining you money, while the poor suckers pays for honey... ;)

Updating trough April

2010-04-07T03:46:00.004+02:00

I am picking up numbers here and there, but I don't seem to call the bitches. I don't have that much time. I like spending it with my team members and taking total control over them.

But I am getting bored of it. Better weather is in the air and I started participating in Supreme's bootcamp on zenmack.com

It is interesting I might add and boosts my confidence.

Beside that everything is fine, still hitting the gym, still pushing my comfort levels. Quite happy with my progression. It is important to invest in yourself.

Keep in mind fellows, Bitches Ain't Shit! But you are! Hope you enjoy your spring time and that you had nice Easter...

Till next time fellas ;)

Player is pusher of words...

2010-03-28T22:02:00.003+02:00

Flattery... Know that you are bluffing from START! I am always aware when something flatters me. I never bow down to words, words are pointless and meaningless. Thats how I view the words... We use words to fuel our game, chicks are addicted to our words and our voice, like to crack. They become junkies of our words! We're just pushers selling dope.

Being a dealer at really young age, made me comperhend some shit about people psychology. And emotions are the same! Emotions are triggering dopamine! When there is no dopamine in neural system, you feel like shit! Don't ever get addicted to this bullshit. You need to be detached from your own dopamine flow if you want to control yourself. You give, you takeaway! Give me my money and I will give you my words...

When I was weaker I used to feed of the game of the chick, their lies were strong, but I knew them on their plane, on emotional plane, so I had them eat back their words and suck them up, like truth, although they didn't meant shit from what they said. I always had my revenge.

Geminis are really good at selling THIN AIR! Know your words, know that they don't mean jack shit! Give them, FOR A PRICE. Be it blow job, or be it expensive car... Don't give them out for free. Value your words, but always know that they don't mean jack shit, they are just product, they have no value for YOU, they are not made for you to believe your own words, you NEED TO KNOW you are selling lies! Your product needs to be unique, because you are unique, she needs to know, that SHE WILL NEVER EVER FIND ANOTHER YOU! Your PRICE TAG IS INFINITE!

You are the one who is building empire in her mind and you are the ruler of that empire. If she doesn't comply and obey to YOU, that empire will SHATTER into pieces in the matter of seconds! She needs to bow down in front of you, with FEAR, with DEEPEST RESPECT to your dominance and masculinity. She needs to know that you are flow of her good emotions, if she doesn't play by YOUR RULES, there won't be any game! And than she won't get her crack. She won't get those good emotions, you will just remain silent.

Words are powerful, be aware it's 2 way street! Be aware how you view what you said. Be aware how things that people said to you affect you! You might giving your power away inside of you. It might not appear on the surface, but don't attach yourself to anyone! When you are player, you don't give your heart to anyone, you don't give away your power for words. Cause I will repeat, words are jack shit, they don't mean nothing to you.

It's your way or HIGHWAY! Give her some time, she will obey and come back crawling on her knees...

Get her life story, than MAKE HER LIFE STORY is my moto... Be that guy, who she will never be able to forget, who will haunt her in her sweetest dreams and her worse nightmares... Be that guy, who she owes her life to. Be her red pill, that she would like to take until the rest of her life and never get enough of it...

New to internet marketing? This article will set you off on your path!

2010-03-26T13:20:00.002+01:00

BS Your Way to Internet Riches

Contents

Introduction
Whit Hat, Gray Hat and Black Hat
Market and Product
Psychological triggers
Technical information
The BS Riches Tributary

Introduction

I admit I am a newbie at Internet marketing. The first task I set for myself was to understand what the hell all the hawking was about, so I undertook some education. I have since consumed Internet marketing books, ebooks, audios and videos until they came out my ears, including crap on MLM, hypnosis, horse racing and God knows what all else. From the hype alone, I should know enough secrets to put the CIA to shame.

I don’t have many secrets, though. All I have are some thoughts, overviews and technical information. I am putting some of it down in an organized fashion, in a kind of blueprint form. This is more for me because I want to eventually make money from it. Use it if you think it’s worth something. I don’t mind sharing. The customer base is huge and growing. Just don’t spam it.

I wish I could take credit for some of this stuff, but it came from many sources. Those of you who are old-timers will know where a lot of things came from. Later, when this study comes to a money something, I will throw in the sources, elaborate a 200 page ebook, a 600 page loose-leaf binder course, 12 CD’s, a DVD six-pack, and membership site with guest guru participation and lots of freebies. Oh yeah, I forgot. It will only be $1,995, down from $3,995 for a limited time only because I think you are extra special.

I care.

Whit Hat, Gray Hat and Black Hat

The whole purpose of Internet marketing is to sell people stuff or get them to do stuff that pays you.

That’s it.

There are three basic approaches. If this bothers anyone, I don’t mean to be offensive. I am simply stating categories as I see them. I will be using them as I go along.

White Hat: Sell the best stuff you know, believe in it, and follow the rules.
Gray Hat: Do White Hat stuff, but throw in some bullshit and if, perchance, you sell some crap, take the money and run.
Black Hat: Get as much money for as little as you can. Favor quantity crap over quality value.

We can go outside this scheme altogether and sell freelancing services, but that’s employee mentality. My focus here is on entrepreneurship and getting rich. If you get real broke, sell some writing or coding or flip some hamburgers to get by until you make it. I didn’t bother studying techniques for any of that.

Another division of online promotion is useful:

Spam: There are many names for this, shotgun approach, throw a lot of mud on the wall and see what sticks, etc. The crux of this approach is to automate quantity and not care so much about profiling.
Targeting: There are colorful labels for this, too: laser targeting, finding schools of hungry fish, niche marketing, etc. The most important aspect of this approach is profiling a customer base through different kinds of studies.

White Hatters target. Black Hatters spam. Gray Hatters do both.

Market and Product

There aren’t too many aspects to worry about here:
1. Find a lucrative market and product,
2. Make a place to sell it and advertise, and
3. Sell it and get paid.

To identify a lucrative market, you have to see what folks want to buy, find something similar and offer it to them. Or you can be a stubborn fool and try to get them to buy some crap they don’t want. Stay broke, I don’t care. This is one of the most important decisions of the process and you should make it consciously, even if you think you don’t need to.

If you can be passionate about your market and product, all the better. But Don’t-Give-A-Crap marketing (when disciplined) will always outsell Fool-In-Love-With-His-Dream marketing. No exceptions. If you can’t have both, take the first. Make some money. Then you can at least become a sucker and pay for it.

People pay the most when you solve a problem. So search for phrases on Google like “no solution” and “need help” and so forth. Forums are good, so add the word “forum.” See what comes up. Find the ones that come up most often. Do some reading. Then see if you can find or make a product that solves their problem. This will define your niche and product at the same time. (Niche means small specialized market.)

Also, you could look into desperate people (people with eminent money disasters, especially home foreclosures, spouses with fear of being cheated on, insecure people who cannot get dates, those with severe diseases, fat people, etc.). This is really predatory if you do not provide value, but if you do and you over-deliver, you will make good money and provide them a service they sorely want and need. Not everyone is suited to this category, though, and you could end up a nervous wreck who is unable to sleep at nights from guilt and empathy. Check whether you have more of an inner moral compass or a callous where that should be.

The best stuff is digital because there’s no overhead, but you know what you know. So if your product is physical and there is shipping, deal with it.

Then look on Amazon, eBay and other places that provide product sales statistics. See how the products sell for this problem and niche. There are all kinds of techniques for checking this, so look for them in the literature. The only important part is to be sure you are looking at closed sales statistics and not simply product searches or offers.

On keywords, you’ve got to do the donkeywork. Keep in mind that when a person types in a keyword on Google or a search engine, he is looking for something. You need to get him to look at your stuff and not someone else’s stuff. Do what it takes. It’s easy to lose sight of this when you start studying it because of all the math. There are a gazillion books on keyword strategies, but you can actually get the basics for free by searching Google.

Product names make the best keywords. Next come 3-5 word phrases called long-tailed phrases. The worst keywords are general terms like “make money” and the worst of the worst are ones nobody is looking for. You type them in and nothing comes up except
“sorry.”

Once again, make sure people who search for your keywords are people who buy stuff (do Amazon, eBay, etc., again if you need to). “Freeware,” for instance, is a terrible keyword. So are “cheapskate” and “free ebooks.”

The highest-selling niche markets are those whose keywords have:
1. A lot of search requests (over 200 a month on the free Wordtracker keyword tool), and
2. A low number of pages to search (under 300,000 or so on a Google search).

This is just a rule of thumb, though. If everybody is selling Wii’s and making money, then sell Wii’s, too. When everybody’s doing it, unless you want to specialize, don’t compete. Copy. Copy everything you can from top sellers and expose yourself as much as you can to their traffic. Expect modest earnings, not a fortune from this.

You can sell all kinds of stuff, both niche and popular. If you sell enough modest stuff, you make a fortune.

Next you need a site to sell the stuff on. Learn HTML sites, do Wordpress, or set up a free site like a hosted blog, Squidoo or a Web 2.0 site. Learn the options. There’s tons of assorted crap out there to teach you. For a small niche site, you need about 5-10 pages of quality content and your offer, which will send the reader to a sales page. Make it pretty to look at and that’s about it. You can pepper it with Adsense if sales are down.

Don’t be fooled by a lot of blah blah blah about blogging. Treat blogs as niche presales sites or backlink pages. End of blogging course.

You can make Adsense sites with blog farms, etc., but products give you more money per sale. Learn to sell products. Then learn to make Adsense sites. That’s the best sequence in my opinion unless you’re a real geek or math freak.

If you can learn the shit-through-the-snake sales page techniques, all the better. (This means your reader starts at the top, goes through a long scroll until he hits bottom and comes out by clicking to the order page.) Lots of hype, testimonials, fake high prices that you discount, fake reviews, freebies, big ugly “Buy Now” buttons all over, and other techniques. There’s oodles of stuff on this. They are usually called landing pages or sales pages. They are crap but they work. That’s why people use them.

If you have trouble learning the techniques, find a good sales page that impresses you and copy the damn thing. Then replace the dude’s stuff with your info. Sales pages don’t get any search engine attention, so you can copy up a storm.

IMPORTANT. Make sure you can get paid and accept credit card payments. Set up accounts with Paypal, Clickbank, some other places (look for them). Get a merchant account (the best option, but do the others as well).

Make sure you deliver promptly. For digital products, make sure there is a way to download it. Those who sell other people’s stuff online don’t have that problem, but they need to learn how to cloak their commission link (usually called a hoplink). It’s pretty technical but doable. Even if you don’t do it, you still make money. You are just ripped off sometimes.

If you are starting out with your own digital product, protect the download page, but not too rigorously. It’s good for Black Hatters and other clever fellows and gals to grab it for free and comment about it. Your name grows as it spreads. They’re going to steal it anyway, so don’t even worry about it. Just make it a little challenging to keep the newbies out. Of course, it’s better to get paid, but remember that if you completely isolate yourself and you are a nobody, you will get 100% of nothing.

As to physical products, like I said, there’s shipping and you have to deal with it. This isn’t rocket science, though and the literature is easy to find. Look for “drop shipping” and you will get all kinds of places to sell goods and let others worry about shipping.

I didn’t say too much about one aspect of your product: what you sell. You can sell other people’s stuff, your own stuff or try to get them to do stuff like click on an ad, fill out forms or install programs on their computers. I didn’t say much on purpose. There are gazillions of ideas, techniques and so-called secrets out there. Find what tickles your fancy, find the instructions for getting it or making it on a Google search and simply do that.

But none of this is nearly as important as making sure your product or information solves the problem of people who buy stuff. Or it tickles their dream or they think it’s cool. If you get to them and offer them they want, you sell. That’s the only real secret and any kindergarten kid can tell you that.

Make sure you choose decent profits, too. At least $15-20 a sale. Otherwise, don’t waste your time.

On advertising, I will deal with this below.

White Hatters fall in love with their product and market regardless of sales. Gray Hatters do the market research donkeywork and sell what people want. Black Hatters sell home loans and penis enlargers and so forth by spam with no research, or try to get people to do stuff often by tricking them.

As regards customer profile, remember that it is easier to sell one person out of 2,000 an item (and a dream) for $2,000 than it is to get 2,000 people to buy something for a dollar. You only need to lay down some bullshit to get the first, but you need a whole lot of bullshit to get the second and the money is the same. There is a lot of literature on this so make sure you become familiar with it. I will go into it a bit below on BS Riches Tributary.

Psychological triggers

I love the concept of psychological triggers. There is a lot of stuff written about them, but I have yet to read Internet marketing literature about the dark side. The positive triggers don’t work without it. First let’s look at the light side.

There are six standard psychological triggers that are constantly discussed:

1. Reciprocation: If you give someone something for free, he feels the need to give you something back. That’s why you give out freebies. That’s also why you are constantly told to over-deliver in the Internet marketing literature.

2. Consistency and commitment: If someone does something once, he is more likely to do it again under the same circumstances than he is to do something different. That’s why you try to get him to make that first click or accept that first email, etc. This is sometimes called baby-steps.

3. Social proof: If a lot of people say something is good or bad, the person hearing it or viewing it will be induced to go along. The whole reason for testimonials is right here. Crowd psychology is based on social proof triggers.

4. Liking: A person is more prone to grant someone he likes the benefit of the doubt than someone he doesn’t like. That’s why you try to be human, show your weaknesses with charming humility, talk about your problems and dreams, etc. Once he likes you, he will actually read your sales copy.

5. Authority: Another word for this is credibility. If a person thinks you are an expert, he will often take your word over another person’s without checking it. If you have trouble being truthful, which is the best way to obtain long-term credibility, bullshit people often about what an expert you are. Many will believe you sight unseen.

6. Scarcity: Our customer likes to have something others can’t have. This makes him feel special. Countdowns and “Only 23 left” kinds of messages yank this trigger.

There are many studies on this and sales techniques developed from them. There are people who provide even more triggers. But the 6 above are the main ones used most of the time in the Internet marketing material I have seen.

Now for the dark side. The ugly fact is that it is hard to get these triggers to work without lying or misleading people. You must omit at best. If this bothers you, just be yourself and forget about using them. The White Hatters will not like the following comment, but if you play it straight all of the time, you might be seen as one hell of a nice guy, but you will not sell jack.

Now here’s the really dark side. There are some other triggers that nobody talks about except for cult fighters. I will give 6 for the sake of symmetry, but there are more.

1. Vanity: If a person thinks he is more important than other people for superficial reasons, he will do many stupid things. Flattery works. Pile it on in sales copy. And present your call to action right after. You will often get it.

2. Laziness: People in general like to automate stuff so they don’t have to think. They are lazy. They prefer to push a button and feel like they are masters of the universe than study and get it right. All you have to do is tell them they will learn a secret or simple-to-learn technique nobody knows, that they will only have to do it once, then repeat it without thinking to get a desired result like a profit, and they will pay good money for that secret. Use the phrase “rinse and repeat” often when yanking this trigger.

3. Inner Thief: Almost anybody will steal on the Internet if he thinks he can get away with it and nobody will find out. Anybody. So promise him that if he buys your stuff, you will teach him how to steal other stuff on the sly and nobody will be the wiser. Use pretty words and euphemisms like “secret weapon” and “special technique” and “loophole” and “hedge” and “sidestep” so forth. Don’t say steal. This way he can lie to himself and pretend he is not stealing.

4. Tribe Member: The most common way this trigger is yanked is by an “us against them” approach. Establish this easily by saying “Other gurus teach blah blah blah to the majority of people, but this is a lie!” You make your potential customer feel he is part of a special minority that is striking a blow against an enemy for truth, and, as an “unsought” result, he will get filthy stinking rich by being so virtuous. You also reinforce this by putting together some easy-to-learn insider jargon for common concepts and using these words and phrases frequently in your presentation—always with a subtle superior smirk (vary this with nodding your head knowingly). Also, once you establish group contact with your customer, and yourself as the cool expert wealth guru, single him out for special praise in front of the group. This blends the tribal feelings with vanity. Then he will dig deep in his pockets and fork it over whenever you need him to.

5. Guilt: If your customer is lazy, it is easy to get him on guilt. He knows deep down that he doesn’t know jack, so remind him once in a while about it. Right after he feels comfortable that he is an insider and doesn’t need to think to get rich anymore, he only needs to push some damn button or other, remind him that the stupid fools “out there” always try to get off the easy way and not do the work that needs to be done. That’s why they stay poor. Thunder a little here. This will make him feel guilty and in a panic. Then offer him another “secret” that will show him the light and another button to push for only $XXXX.

6. Greed: This is my favorite. Tell a person he is not to be greedy, but must seek inner balance. Then say because he is very special and enlightened, you will teach him how to make millions. Hit him with visualization. Make him think the millions are arriving tomorrow or the next day. Show him pictures of money and beaches and fancy cars and mansions, telling him that this is his just for the asking. Spend some time showing bank statements. (If you don’t have them, use a graphics program and make them.) Get him really worked up and salivating, then hit him with your product. Once he bites and forks it over, if he complains that his riches didn’t come, then up the ante. Tell him to forget about that old stuff. There is even more coming with this new secret (make up something, whatever, at the time). The customer will fall for it again and again because the larger amounts cater to his greed. This isn’t the only form of using this trigger, but it is widely in use like that.

If you want to learn more about this, study cults and cult fighters. There is a lot of free information on the Internet, so all you have to do is Google it. Cult leaders are masters of using the dark psychological triggers.

I don’t see White Hatters using psychological triggers too much, except for some lightweight stuff taught by standard gurus. They might think this kind of manipulation is dishonest. Gray Hatters will be more ruthless and I see them as the largest group of users. Ironically, I don’t see Black Hatters using them too much, except for special projects and spam texts. Then I see them going forth without mercy.

The real danger is that the line between using psychological triggers and becoming a con artist is pretty thin. A person needs to be emotionally balanced and highly disciplined to use them well without becoming a total scumbag. The best way to avoid this is to always provide value on your end.

Technical information

If you want to work at Internet marketing, you have to bite the bullet about learning technical skills. There are many, too. Fortunately, there is a lot of automated stuff out there that can be used to make money while you are learning the other stuff.

One of the most important technical skills you need all the way from the beginner level, one I have never seen discussed, is fabricating and operating aliases. You need to learn to make up people and act as if you are them. The only person who does not need to do this is one who strives to become an authority and only work within that field. If you want to sell a large quantity of stuff, though, and you are not Wall Mart, you will need to use other names so you don’t blow your authority work. It would never do for an expert in diets and weight loss to sell candy.

I will not go into many specific details, but keep to broad outlines as I have done up to now.

If you have difficulty with imagination, there is a small resource called Fake Name Generator (look it up). It will give you name, address, phone number, credit card number, etc., all fake but in the correct format. (Obviously the credit card doesn’t work.) That’s a start. Get a real phone number for free online from K7 if you feel you need it (look it up). Otherwise, get a Google account (or similar), an email account, and whatnot. Then start signing up for a My Space account and other Web 2.0 sites. The more stuff you get, the more credible your new alias becomes.

You should also keep some kind of records, maybe a spreadsheet folder for each alias. Otherwise, keeping track will be hard after he/she grows up and you have other aliases taking off.

I do not suggest taking this concept so far as to procure a real SSN for your alias or things like that. You do not need the authorities after you. All you want to do is make money and provide value in return, not break any laws by falsifying government documents.

But playing around with this, for example, getting your photo from public domain photo banks, making an avatar, etc., can be a hoot. A money advantage that’s a hoot is using your community of aliases to plug each other’s products and start drawing attention to the products. This sales force can get hilarious.

Now for your other skills. Here is what you should learn at least in rudimentary terms. I suggest learning something superficial about these topics (outline or overview kind of stuff) before going into more depth. This is not all-inclusive, but it will be a good foundation.

Beginner
How to register for email account, use a browser and all elementary things like that.
Money accounts (Paypal and Clickbank to start with)
Affiliate accounts
Free site accounts: Google, Blogger, Squidoo, Weebly, etc.
Free Web 2.0 accounts: My Space, Facebook, Flickr, Digg, Delicious, StumbleUpon, etc.
Craigslist and other classifieds
Yahoo! Answers and similar
Forum marketing
Basic Niche site and review site concepts
Keyword research
Basic HTML (formatting text and href with anchor texts)
Backlink strategies
Basic Web graphics
Adsense
Adwords and PPC
Article writing and submitting
Sales copywriting
Press release marketing
Making PDF files
Pinging
RSS

Intermediate
More HTML
FTP and CPanel
Scripts
Link Cloaking
Wordpress, both as blog and niche site, including plugins
Web site creation (and site creation program)
Sales site creation, including squeeze page and popups, popunders, etc.
Autoresponders, list building, opt-in forms, follow-up messages and broadcasts
SEO in general
Sitemaps
Audio (and Audacity, including Podcasting concepts)
Video (screencasting, recording, editing, codecs and uploading)
Developing digital products
Site nets and interlinking strategies
More Web 2.0
eBay

Advanced
Blog and site farms
Proxies and IP filtering
Mass posting and link programs
Content scraping and manipulation programs
Advanced HTML, PHP, Perl, etc.
Other Black Hat Techniques

At this point, the person will have a really good idea of what more he needs, what he does well and what he does poorly. The good thing about the Internet is that it is growing so fast that no one needs to learn it all. You can specialize in, say, Squidoo or Wordpress as your main marketing platform, use no audio or video or Black Hat techniques, and still make a bundle on White Hat stuff alone.

Internet marketing is hard to get right, even if you want to bullshit your way to the top. You need hard work any way you look at it, so don’t bullshit yourself. Bullshit others if you want to bullshit. You can choose what you want to do, but you are going to have to learn skills to be able to perform. No exceptions.

Writing

I have read so much crap about writing that I need to say a few words. Most of what I have read is not worth the paper it is written on, but I have come across some good stuff and I have a few thoughts.

About 90% of Internet marketing is about writing, even spam. It is unrealistic to say you don’t want to learn writing, but want to make money off the Internet. That’s like saying you want to go swimming but you can’t stand water. If you loathe writing and refuse to learn it, do something else. All you are going to do is waste your time looking for money on the Internet.

The most important part about writing is to understand why you are doing it.

Spammed backlink. This is the simplest form of commercial writing in existence. Write the link and nothing else. Move on. If you need a comment, say something noncommittal like “Great job!” “Nice forum!” etc., and put the link in. Obviously, the more relevant the comment, the less likely it will be to go the way of all spam.

One-page content blogs or Web 2.0 pages for backlinks to a niche minisite. Use an anchor text with keyword in your link and write something relevant to that keyword and your site. That way the search engines will not penalize it like they do with spam. Rework an article from the minisite and you are done.

Article for article directory. These articles are used for content on sites, blogs, ezines, etc., by people who can’t or won’t write what they need. The article includes an author’s box that needs to be published with the article as the price the user pays for using it. The author’s box includes a link to a site you own, preferably a money-site.

The whole purpose of writing an article for directories is to get the reader to keep moving down the page on into the author’s box and click on the link. There is a very good formula I came across for this.

All articles are niche articles by definition. The most important overall point is to give the reader enough information about his interest to keep him reading, but not enough to satisfy him (or bore him).

You can use this system for reworking scraped content, but I will give the system as if the article were being written from scratch.

Before research: Make a list of 3 keywords or keyword phrases you want to use throughout the article.

Research: Use one of the keywords on a Google search and open several sites from the first page. (Or use scraped content, PLR, etc.) Read them quickly, partially or superficially to get a general idea of a point. Write that point down. Get one point for your article from each source and make a list of 3-5 points. Do not copy the other content, but keep the page open for checking facts while you are writing the article.

Title, aim for:
1. Curiosity (“secret,” “hidden,” etc.),
2. Shock value,
3. Benefit (“how to,” “discover,” “7 Ways” etc.) or
4. Ask a question.
Any one of these is good. You don’t need to use more than one. Include your main keyword.

Paragraphs: In the outline below, each number should be one or two sentences, three maximum.

First paragraph:
1. General idea of the subject.
2. List an abbreviated form of your points.
3. Statement of article’s purpose (“explore,” “compare,” “discuss,” etc.)

Point paragraphs (3 to 5):
1. Give point (in different words).
2. Two or three informative sentences about that point.
3. Conclusion and transition to next point. Note: in the last paragraph, mention that the points are over.

Last paragraph:
1. General statement about what was presented.
2. Sum up the points covered (abbreviated), but mention some things you didn’t cover. Focus on things the reader really wants to know.
3. Sum up article based on the purpose given in the first paragraph.

Author’s box:
1. Give something, but minimum information on author. The less the better. This bores folks. Picture is OK.
2. Use anchor texts in links to your site or sites.
3. Give an idea of what to expect on your site or sites.
4. Give a good reason (benefits) for going to your site. Hint that the missing info in the article is there. Say you have ironclad systems or secret solutions and other bullshit (but have something like that up when they get there). Offer freebies.

Notice how this drives the reader down the page in a logical manner and pushes him to click on the link.

The article should be about 500-1000 words. If you do shorter, the reader feels cheated or the information was too superficial for him to click on your link, and if you do longer, he might put the article down before getting to your link. Make your keyword density about 3%.

Review article. This more or less follows the principles given for directory marketing articles, but there are some differences. There are three kinds of reviews and all of them aim at getting the reader to click on a link to the sales page of a product. Always use anchor text in links. Period. No exceptions. A banner or two on the side of the review is OK (or above or below it). A picture of the product is good to include in the reveiew.

Review articles are used more on review minisites than anywhere else. These minisites are actually niche presales sites in drag. If you do present a review as a guest on someone else’s blog or publication, link to your niche presales site and not directly to the sales letter for fewer headaches with site/publication owners.

1. Normal review. Give product and some basic specs. Mention problems it solves. Bullshit some personal story (or stories) about how you or someone you knew had a problem, the more personal the better, and the product helped solve it or made the person rich or whatever. Give a minor issue or two that the product doesn’t solve so you sound objective. Hint that there are other great benefits (minor ones) you have heard about but still need to look into. Then strongly endorse the product as a problem solver. Click here. You are done.

2. Comparative review. This is actually 3 or more reviews of similar products with some kind of rating system. Do no more than five products at a time. Use the normal review system, but elaborate more on the product you want to sell. Make sure second place is really close and there is at least one with a rather poor rating in third or fourth or fifth place.

3. Scam review. Two of the most searched-for words on search engines are “review” and “scam,” so use this traffic. (Bonus is also high up.) Sound like a hard-hitting journalist at the start. You want the bloody facts and nothing more. You’re nobody’s fool. Say you heard a lot of gossip about the product being a scam and you are going to get to the bottom of it. Then really bullshit a personal story about you or someone you know using the theme of “I was lost but now I’m found.” Life was hell before the product. Someone mentioned it to help you. You were suspicious as all get-out. You tried the product with misgiving. Voila. Problem solved. Life ain’t all roses now, but you are no longer a sufferer and you’ll be damned if you’ll ever talk bad about that product again. Yada yada yada… click here…

Normal content articles and books. Go to school to learn how to do this or use other people’s stuff. Blog posts and forum posts for content are about the same. You do this stuff because you love it, not to sell stuff. So this is outside of my discussion.

Style.
1. Use a conversational tone for Internet marketing. If a reader needs to look up a word, he ain’t buying and he can’t read fast.
2. Talk the talk of your audience. If the demographics of your market profiles young girls, don’t talk macho. If it is religious folks, don’t talk jive. You get the idea.
3. If you get stuck, ask a question and answer it. (“Why do you want to do that? Well…”)
4. Spin a “most people” bullshit story. (“Most people say this…” or “Most gurus say that…” followed by “But the truth is…”) There is no way on earth you could know what most people say, but it makes for great bullshit. Since you are giving The Hidden Truth, you are the Hero of the Day and the reader is pleased to know you.
5. Get other style stuff from the literature or on Google searches. There’s a ton of it out there.

White Hatters will learn this stuff down cold. Gray Hatters will do it, but will often use pre-prepared content and content re-writing programs to help. Black Hatters will use scraped content and content re-writing programs almost exclusively. But even they can use these techniques to improve their content while checking for gibberish.

The BS Riches Tributary

BS Riches Tributary? How’s that for a phrase? I’m getting my jargon together already.

The idea is that you start with a trickle and it grows and grows as it moves along until it is a raging river gushing out into the ocean. I’m talking about money, of course, and about one person’s pocket flowing into yours.

I am going to discuss this in terms of Internet marketing and your own product, but it can be applied to any niche with reasonable traffic and sales.

Remember that it is easier to get one person in 2,000 to fork over two grand than it is for the 2,000 people to plunk down a buck each.

If most people see you are hyping bullshit, don’t worry. (But you can hype quality value, too. Both quality stuff and bullshit sell. Just remember not to bullshit yourself.) The bullshit spotters would never get snared into your BS Riches Tributary, anyway, so don’t worry about them.

You first got to get people to listen to you. Try “permission marketing.” This means that you give them free stuff and they give you permission to send them your spiel. This is the concept behind opt-in forms and autoresponder marketing.

But you can hook them on sales pages and niche presales minisites, too. It doesn’t matter where. The more hooks you put out, the merrier. The important thing is to get them to bite and buy that first whomp-ti-do ebook or software.

I need to open parentheses here. How do you get someone to buy something like that and accept you as an expert if you never sold anything before and don’t have jack?

Easy.

Don’t mention you name at first in the bright lights. Focus on the system. When you talk about yourself (or “others” talk about you), say you have been in reclusion for 5 years or more, during which time you have been working on and perfecting this top-secret system. Only now have you felt it could be unleashed on the public. Say you tried it out first and made a fortune with it, so now you want to spread the good times around and share it with others. Talk about the virtue of giving something back for your blessings. Make up stuff, texts, photos, videos, etc., about how much money you have and show it off.

Start putting your aliases to work. Make them do it in any manner you want (endorsement, pure sales page, reviews, “is it a scam?” etc.), but the final message has to be, “Oh Wow! This is IT!” Mix it up and have a ball. Other people will start jumping on the band-wagon after a while.

Once you start making some money, get in touch with another guru (or more than one) and offer him a cut or outright money for plugging it to his customers and plugging it in general. His name will bring others and the whole shebang is on its way in the BS Riches Tributary.

The present average price for an ebook is around $47 and that’s pretty good. If you go much cheaper, you lose image and market focus. A dude who forks over 47 smackeroonies for a piece of crap like a PDF ebook that he has to print out when he can go down to the bookstore and buy a new attractive bound book for 25 bucks is probably willing to dig deep for other crap that makes him look like an insider.

Also, you might want to increase the perceived value of your product by saying the real price is $97, but for a limited time, yada yada yada…

Once your fish bites the bait and hook, you start reeling him in. This will be far less than 1% of all people who look at your stuff, but this small group is where your BS Riches lies. Sell your customer the dream. Sell him the sizzle. Tell him he is going to get rich beyond decency and belong to the world’s elite of insiders. Sell him on His Special Fine Destiny.

Don’t think he’s a total fool, though. He might be committed because of the 47 smackeroonies, but he wants to be told he did a good job and he wants some insider info.

So pepper the ebook (or software manual) with phrases like “Congratulations!” “You did it!” “Get ready for a wealth make-over!” “This will blow your mind!” and so on. Be generous. After all, the dude paid for this. Make him think he already has money in the bank.

Show him your rich-dude stuff as proof (young pretty women, fancy cars, yacht, mansion, etc.) If you are starting out and don’t have jack, make this stuff up. There are photos all over the Internet and if you can’t copy-paste, hang it up. What the hell are you reading this for?

Tell him to change his mindset, to start thinking about how he wants to spend his new riches and pay off all his debts. Give him a generous dishing of bullshit mental images about his wife smiling, friends laughing, “debt-free” signs, telling his boss off, cars, houses, jewelry, hundred dollar bills floating around, the works. Hit him hard, but don’t go overboard. Even a duped fool has a bullshit meter and you never want that to go into the red zone.

Now you have to provide some value. Mostly tell him how to sell some stuff and how drive traffic to the sales points. You might want to tell him how to make some stuff to sell or how to get some stuff from other people. There are tons and tons of “secrets” out there, so use your imagination. If you get really stuck, focus on a small item, like an Adwords title for instance. Crib from the literature, but use your own words. Write 7 pages on how to do the title, whether to use a call to action or a question mark or any other bullshit you can think of. Use some big words if you know of any for statistics, but keep the insider jargon flowing in abundance.

There is another angle. A person who is reading a PDF file that he paid $47 bucks for is paying attention. You have a captive audience, so make a sales pitch. Tell him that he can raise his earnings “up a notch,” or “take it to the next level” or some other bullshit phrase that sounds good. Then offer him some other stuff. Make sure your pitch about his imaginary wealth takes it to the next level, too, so he thinks he is going to get even richer than before.

I read in one place that this should observe the proportion of 20% information value, 40% selling the dream and 40% sales pitch for new stuff. That doesn’t sound right from the stuff I have seen, but the categories are correct. To make an off-the-cuff estimation, I have seen it more like 50% information value, 30% selling the dream and 20% sales pitch for new stuff or something along those lines. This should be tested and varied according to results.

The next step (the new stuff you stick him with) is to get him signed up into a membership site where he can download videos, mp3’s, transcripts and other people’s leftover stuff for free. Charge a sign-up fee of $100-200 and a monthly fee of $20-40.

Once inside, he can also buy a special DVD course for $497 or so. Or he can get the entire multimedia home-study course (including a 600 page loose-leaf binder text) for $1,997.

Change these prices if they don’t work or if you think you can get more.

Give your disciple (he is now a disciple) more secrets and start peppering in Black Hat info. But keep the jargon and the bullshit flowing. Remember, this is a tributary and you are now in the river part. So flood the bullshit. He is now an insider and he needs to be treated as such.

Then shoot for the moon: a few one-on-one coaching sessions with membership to a special insider’s club with group coaching and workshops. Make sure your insider’s club can be accessed from inside the first membership site with aggressive “Members Only” type gateways. Here you can get $20,000 or so a pop.

What about traffic for all this crap?

Well, there’s the normal stuff you teach (SEO, backlinks, PPC, etc.), but there’s a whole lot more.

Make an aggressive affiliate recruiting campaign. Like I mentioned above, put your aliases to work as your first affiliates. Make them sound like they are selling the hell out of your product. Make it easy for new affiliates to sign on. Offer free training and teach new affiliates how to spam the living daylights out of the Internet, sites, blogs, forums, audio, video, the works. But always say on your own sales material that you are “100% against spam and unconditionally condemn the practice.”

Give the new affiliates pre-written texts so all they do is say good things about you all over the place. Give them banners and sales buttons and templates. Cloak their hoplinks for them. Offer them a 75% commission. Keep your aliases pumping right along beside them and if an affiliate starts selling well, copy all his sales stuff for one of your aliases and do the same.

You will meet many people along the way and other bullshit artists. Use them for ideas. It shouldn’t be hard to come up with an unending list of new products and campaigns. Before too long, you will have a name as an Internet guru, you will be invited as speaker to prestigious seminars and conventions, you will be a world-class authority and your trip on the BS Riches Tributary will have reached the ocean.

By this time, it doesn’t matter whether you are White Hat, Gray Hat or Black Hat. You are king.

THE END

(taken from blackhatworld.com)

2010-03-18T00:05:00.003+01:00

Just listen to the songs...

2010-03-13T11:41:00.002+01:00

2010-03-08T11:36:00.001+01:00

I blew coffee date... Even pro's make mistakes ;)

2010-03-01T03:37:00.003+01:00

I went on a coffee date with a girl from the gym. Everything started out when she was watching me in the gym. I stepped up went to her and asked her do we know each other, she said she saw me in the gym, but we didn't met, than I introduced myself, asked her for the number right away. She gave it, but kinda resisted, and says, I will give it to you next time when I see you in the gym. And I am like, I am not gonna ask you the second time. She types it in after.

I call her two days after. Usually I call chicks right of the next day, but I was busy. Called her on friday and bust her balls about her accent, I feel like we have connection during those phone calls and fluff talk with enthusiasm.

We went on the coffee date in one excellent place. Cool atmosphere, kinda romantic. Waiter knows me, kinda smirks, cause he sees me often with different chicks in the same place Bitch orders a coffee and mineral water. They bring her most overpriced water they had. I buster her balls for that. I usually pay for the coffee, but at the end of the coffee she asks me do I want her to pay for the water, and I confirm it. She gives more than water was... Otherwise I would pay her the fucking coffee, since I feel cheap if I told her I am gonna take her out, I can at least pay for a drink. Usually I go to another place right after the first one. If she pays the second round I keep it cool, if she doesn't, than, I guess she won't be seeing me again...

We get in our cars and drive on to second location (sigh she took shorter root). We proceed to the place and on the way there I try to kiss her, she resists, even before I tried practically. Than I tell her that we don't even need to hit the second place and start going back to the car with her.

Her face was fucking furious. Pure gold to see something like that. Guess it kinda really got her ego down.

That is the breakdown of what happened. Here is the list of things I know now I COULD do better. I don't regret anything, it's a part of my learning curve.

First of all, I need to tighten up the game and fucking get over it in my head that I literally NEED TO REVERSE THE GAME TOTALLY, not some half ass shit. I talked with this with my player friend, he insisted that chick is the one who is practically doing the first kiss. You just need to give them opportunity to do it.

I think my game was up to the level there. We had connection while talking, I was trying to figure out what she's into and sell myself on the topic. Basically we had shitloads in common, so we had many subjects to talk about.

Anyway I don't understand the chick. If she went on a date with a guy that she talked well and had loads in common. We kept it sexual in the convo and enjoyed it really much, like both of us. Than why she didn't wanna go for a kiss, usually it's done deal.

So my wild guess is that she's low on self esteem and wanted some nice guy to threat her nicely to fuel her ego, which kinda ruins mine. But in the end, she was the one to get frustrated, so I feel cool about myself for stepping up to my ground in the end.

I take all responsibility on myself, and I believe I will figure out my blind spots in the future. I want to know how to extract her dream and resell it right back at her during the convo, so she KNOWS, I am THE ONE for her.

She choose me, and later on this proovs that my game is not up to that level, but I am progressing.

Also I believe that I am putting to much pressure on myself to bring up third team member, and maybe some desperation comes from that. I am going to be laid back about it, and it's gonna happen eventually, cause I AM FUCKING STEPPING UP! So sooner or later... I am not gonna be such a fucking try hard about everything, game is about being chilled and laid back, and keeping the power in my court.

I gave my fucking power away by going to full blown kiss, and not leading her to it. I am not gonna stress much about this (though I am). Learning from my mistakes...

Car race with a blonde...

2010-02-28T02:59:00.003+01:00

Two chicks park beside me on the traffic light. I pump my horn, she views at me. I blow her a kiss. She blows back...

Blonde, all made up hair. By the looks of it, a freak, the type I want to hunt down...

Traffic light turns green and I speed up. She had better car and accelerates faster and gets ahead of me. We're both running 120km/h. Streets are empty and all of this is happening around 2 am. I try to go in lane with opposite direction to move past her, she jumps in front of me. I blow horn and don't push back, she moves eventually and I get ahead of her and in back to our lane...

I take a right turn, and she proceeds forward...

It was cool experience... I realized how freaks and that type of girls love excitment... Maybe I should have pulled over and got her number or somethin...

Till next time...

How to increase quality of your relationship management by 57%

2010-02-22T15:44:00.004+01:00

This month goes smooth. Better than I imagined. I didn't do many approaches, but guess what, I don't need them. At the momment I need to handle two of my baby girls.

It is amazing how them calling me Daddy turns me on, seems they start to like it as well.

My main girl busted me on cheating on her and had some serious good advice on zenmack.com

She's still with me. (and I am still cheating on her). What I can tell you is that not chasing a girl, when she gets affraid is something that brings results on the table, if your game in bed is up to the level...

I know I was hard to girls in the past and being cruel a lot, but lately I figured out that only way of disciplining them is trough pleasure...

...and delayed pleasure!

I don't know how much to stress you out with this, but girls obey when you don't step up on them and their insecurities, you need to justify their failures and pin point them with positive in order to bring change in them.

I have hard times keeping my heart in safe, but somehow I manage it. There are still some certain insecurities that are holding me back, but they seem to dissolve on daily basis.

I need third girl on my team and than I guess it's complete...

Also I need some time for myself, so I started schedueleing days for girls, they know I am there for them on certain days. And I am getting less and less flexibile about it...

I hooked up on GoaTrance again, it brings me back to my path and purpose. And my purpose is to have leadership role in society and make positive change in the world.

Enjoy some beautiful religious sounds of Etnica:

Phone Game with a ho!

2010-02-14T20:32:00.004+01:00

Okay, now I totally got what the freak is. This bitch actually thinks that she is something, by getting married 3 times and having tons of cash already and her own company... We talked for half an hour and I was using my lower tone voice, which most of chicks get hooked on.

Well in all of that I see potential! We were talking about sex quite a lot. She gets tons of attention, during our phone call her phone rang 3 fucking times, with some random chodes that I made fun when conversation ended. Told something liek, I am not gonna talk with you anymore, got other stuff to do, you already got guys to amuse you. She replied something leik, yea, but they only amuse me by talking. I said ofcourse, I know that, cuz I amuse with other things. She says to me that I am naughty and rude, and I tell her, that's becuz you like it that way...

What I figured out that this ho or freak or whatever knows the game! I heard half of the lines or read them, or heard them either from pick up community or on this site, or from my player friends. Just from this bitches mouth. I literally sensed how she tried to play my emotions and it generated massive attraction when I laughed it off and said that she's cute, like to lil sister.

Gold momment was when she (I WILL HAVE TO USE PICK UP TERM FOR THIS) QUALIFIED ME and/or disqualified me. It was funny as hell. She is imposing questions what I like or what I don't like, and I am telling her all the time the opposite, just to piss her off. Than she says something like you have minus points for having facebook and I accuse her of being shallow! She starts qualifying herself and justifying her statement.

She was shit testing me for my age and I was busting her for that, and also told her that she's not the oldest chick that I dated, which is exactly true, 33 years old are kinda kids for me now

We talk about sex, and I ask her if she's into BDSM, she says yea, than I told her that I will enjoy dominating her. Schedueled meeting tommorow 17:00 in strict city centre, where she supposedly has a flat. I guess I am going for the pull on day 1 in her place.

I am concerned that she might stood up, BUT why would she otherwise hang on the phone with me for 30 minutes? And 10 minutes previous days... Well it can only be her loss if she does.

#Close in 15 seconds... I closed before I opened...

2010-02-11T01:57:00.003+01:00

I am gonna start with my approach from today, which was something that made my head blaze in excitment after I did it... I am parking my car in front of my clinic. So I catch eye contact from this chick on parking lot. She looks insane 6' tall, huge tits, polished nails, crazy good looking ho.

She stares at me and I don't look away, stay with the tension of eye contact. I am pulling up my parking break, unfastening the seatbelt and pulling out the keys out of my car and...

She's still fucking looking. So I lean back and just keep staring at her... She starts smiling and looks away after 15 seconds. I leave the car, get near her and say my classic:

"Since we're looking at each other that much, we might as well meet each other."

Her name, my name...

"Give me your number..."

She gives me her number and notices that my hands are shaking... She seemed concerend about me in that momment, felt emotion...

She asks me why my hands are shaking, and they were, from adrenaline surge, that I've got, this is quite the issue I have when I get struck with it. I don't feel uncomfortable in my head, just can't hide that fact, that my hands are shaking from excitment. It's not bad excitment, it's adrenaline rush, but it has it's effect, dunno should I deal with this, since I don't have problems staying with that anxiety, but just looks lame...

It's all the time like that, when I get excited, my hands start to shake. If I am about to get into the fight, my hands will start shaking. It doesn't mean that I am afraid, just that's how my organism reacts to adrenaline.

So she asks me, and I tell her, I am kinda sick, I am on my way to see the doctor, I am sick (which I actually am, but it doesn't invovle hand shaking)... She says, that she just been to the doctor.

I txt her right away: "Pleased to meet you "

She answers: "Pleased to meet you to "

I am really good with personelle at the clinic and my doctor gives me out her age. She's 10 years older than me, well that's my calibre... Kinda bugs me that she was visiting ginekologist, but doesn't matter...

I send her a message: "1976 was a good year for wine..."

She replies: "How do you know?"

I keep her waiting for my answer for quite a while and than respond with: "Magic! Talk to you later..."

On my way home I call her, scheduele a date in saturday and talk with her for 5 minutes and tell her that we're gonna see each other than...

I am concerned about hand tremor, while excited. It's not creating me any tension in me, but makes me look like a retard. Any ideas how to solve it?

She's the first one to notice it, but anyway it makes me look like a retard

Inner Game Improvement, Car Sex and Approach...

2010-02-05T05:36:00.002+01:00

After a while I made approach, just to see how it feels still and am I in the element... And yea, I still am in the element... It went quite good. I didn't have any intention to close the deal, just to test myself do I have it in me or not, and yea it's still there, maybe even better than before.

I want to stress that my touching of the girl is pretty smooth and it's really comfortable for me and the girl to get in really close one to each other... Had some eye contact prior to approach, so maybe I can't quite call it cold... Anyway, funniest part that there was some chode jumping around her like a dolly, he got all upset when I got near... She was in her peer group with like 4 other chicks around. Was quite cool, I guess I need to get back into gaming new chicks, I just feel that it is what I need.

Regarding my ho's on the team, situation goes pretty crazy and different... I am in chill mode and not pushing it... My "primary" girlfriend started loosing that status of being "primary"... Somehow I am loosing her and seems she did some bad moves and started loosing support of my friends...

Regarding the MILF, she started paying our coffee "dates"... We had great sex in my car and started bonding... Finally after 1 month I started grasping her life story in some details. I can sense that she is getting more and more emotionally evolved. She complained again about our age difference and regrets that situation is not different (either me older, or she younger). I feel her in a way. After that car sex we went for coffee and she was talking as hell, had loads of things to say... It was different than our regular fucking routine at my place, where our chance of talking is zero, since we're fucking all the time... I have a feeling that she will have a spot in my team for quite some time...

Interviewed her what she thinks of my physical appearance and she confirmed me, what I believe about myself and told me that I would look way way more better if I fixed my teeth, and that is one of my priorities for this year, regardless of what she said. I am rated quite high and it's starting to become integrated into my belief system, before that I was knowing that only on logical level, now I am feeling that way about myself...

You need to keep in mind that I went trough a massive transformation regarding my physical appearance! And I am still ongoing trough it... This learned me to be persistent in important things in my life. One of the biggest things is to learn to invest constantly into yourself... It will pay off and take you to locations of which you dreamed before...

I still need to get some things corrected and that is getting new chicks whenever I feel like it. I do have loads of eye contact, cause of my large body frame, but I need to learn to capitalize it and improvising the "DREAM" to chiks right on the spot... I don't have a feeling that I can attract anytime I want and that keeps me still in scarcity mindset situation, instead of thinking abundantly...

Also my "GF" has a problem with her period it is running late for 5-6 days, she is freaked out if she got pregnant... That bothers me in a way, don't want those kind of trouble on my back...

Evolved DayGame Theory, higher success rate

2010-02-02T13:02:00.002+01:00

I used to approach like a motherfucker... And I did it on daily basis. It's something that became fun to me and something that I plan on doing with certain changes.

Biggest issue about cold approaching is that you don't know if it's hit or miss, because you weren't "invited" into conversation. So I decided to step up on each eye contact/invitation. If I have doubt is it an invitation or not, I am still going to step up, because I don't have issues with getting rejected, pretty much rewired myself out from that bad emotions rejection gives you, during my approaching days

I still believe in certain ammount of calibration that needs to take place in order to figure out which eye contact is invitation and which one isn't. Especially on the street... I am not going to clubs a lot lately, my lectures on university are sometimes on Saturday mornings, so I can't go out on Fridays... And missed quite a lot of past Saturdays, but street is something that I adore.

I am not reffering here to going out on streets in order to approach chicks that give you eye contact, but rather to approach, during some of my regular day to day stuff.

Goal is to step up, whenever I get invited...

So yesterday I went to restaurant after my gym to grab some food with my friend. There were 2 milf's grabbing some food also, and the one who saw me kept looking at me. I didn't like the MILF that was looking at me, but I decided to step up just to check the theory... Said "Bon Apetite" went in polite and they started giggling... They were really polite and thanked me, couldn't keep up with my eye contact so they lowered their heads and their eyes in a submissive way.

Then I found out that her friend was way hotter, but I didn't intend to do anything else... Somehow I had anxiety, because of other people and my friend sitting alone... Anyway didn't have any intent, but at least some stepping up needs to happen in order for me to develop a behaviour pattern so those things go on autopilot.

Lately I am back into the trance music. So here's something for you from that story ;p

Zenmack University House that you NEED to visit!

2010-01-31T05:35:00.003+01:00

Quite recently I joined forum from the underground Guru called Player Supreme. There is small fee to join it, BUT it's high quality stuff. Insane value for really small price! Supreme himself is really active on that forum and gives great advice to it's members, myself included!

His greatest product is "7 steps to become Player Supreme". This book is about sorting out your inner game and pin points you great advice on what you need to do about yourself.

I read shitloads of material and his book still remained revealing in many ways, even though I've read tons before it.

On a scale from 1 to 10, this book is a fucking 9! Should that happen to be your first book to read on seduction, I am quite positivly sure you would rate it a perfect 10.

Unlike other pick up and seduction products, where material is copy pasted, this book has authentic stuff, that will get you way better in bed... What I've figured out lately, that game only begins in bed, it doesn't end there...

Forum itself is cool place to hang out and it's members are quite nice and also helpful and coming from different life stories, but with same goal.

Forum is private so a lot of game sharing there, without fear that it will compromise your safety and anonimity. If you are the person willing to improve yourself I belive those 5 $ on pay pal you won't regret in any single way.

He is one of rare persons who are down to earth and pleasent to talk to. Anyway to cut the shit, visit: zenmack.com

Just some sms txt's with my milf...

2010-01-28T13:30:00.003+01:00

Me: Today I want my dick sucked by my litlle slut, after that she's gonna get good boning in her tight pussy, the way she most likes it and deserves. I have irresistible urge to fill her with cum in one of her 3 holes. Naughty kiss ;*

She: Morning naughty, I don't know how I am gonna wait the evening to see you after this message now... Naughty girl

;)

2010-01-27T19:42:00.001+01:00

Updating trough January... part 3

2010-01-24T07:34:00.004+01:00

I can't bother writing field reports lately... I am not approaching in a way I used to... Maybe I am loosing out on my skillset, but I am at point where I get enough pussy and a feeling that more will come with the vibe that I am currently having...

Investing my time in social circle in my girlfriend and my newly acquired fuck buddy. I am feeling totally satisfied for the time being on this issue.

It was funny how I was vibing tonight in front of my ex... It is funny how chicks can act totally chodely when you become a man. She got all emotional and attracted to me. I felt sorry for her... She doesn't have much choice lately and at this point I am the one who is doing the choosing and having a freedom of choice.

Since I got my foundation handled in the near future I am about to get control and rythm with my current ho'es. I believe I am doing nicely. At some point when new pussy comes around I will check out what she has to offer, in the meanwhile there are plenty of things that I can work on... Handling other areas of my life will improve my game. Need to see the dentist and check out about my teeth and get permanent bracelet.

I will hit the gym more often and study harder in order to get my university into the rythm... Need to get back on my path.

I believe I handled the MILF perfectly, told her that I have gf and she's totally fine with that. From my point of view it seems she doesn't have much choice. I know I am on right path the moment she offered to buy me gloves for this cold weather... That was really cute of her, maybe she could get me some flowers as well, haha
What I like the most is that her pussy is obliterated in bed. The way I imposed control over her orgasm, she needs to beg for it and ask for permission before cumming. She gets the load all over the face without any problems, and best of all is that she likes it. I ask her "who's slut she is?" and she responds by yelling out my name...

The same way I am handling my girlfriend.

Only dilemma is should I get my old gf back as fuck buddy or avoid her. She's ex abuser of amphetamines and is medicated on antidepressive and I am not sure that I need the smell of her low self esteem. I am very fond of her as she used to be my first gf I ever had, back in the days when she was far better... It seems something died in her eyes, she doesn't have the energy in her eyes she used to have, something I used to fall in love with and I feel sorry for her... In a way she almost calls out my "captain save a ho" from somewhere deep withing... I tried it back than even, but it was in peril, I believe it is the same now...

I guess it's time waste and my time is far batter spent in some new pussy...

Updating trough January... part 2

2010-01-15T19:37:00.004+01:00

(Important note: I am not from USA and wasn't aware of many negative feelings that would come from using the "N" word in this post. It wasn't meant to insult anyone or provoke any negative feelings or racial discrimination, peace)

Loads of days passed and I wasn't typing anything. I have a bit rough period, I mean stressful and full of stuff happening and it keeps me tired a lot, but loads of fun thing are happening.

First of all, the MILF I was writing about in last couple of reports is fucked. Made her fuck buddy and for the first time did something exactly as I wanted. I always had troubles with keeping emotional relationship separated from sexual. This time I did it flawlessly. Told her that we're there for banging each other, but we can't be in relationship.. And that I am there for her.

I am following advice from one nigger about complimenting chicks and seems like a really good thing. Gives that positive vibe to chick that corrects for not giving her attention that she wants and she comes craving for more compliments and more cock and sperm. Also thanks to that nigger for pin point me out the location of gspot.

Beside that I had emotional roller coaster with my girlfriend. It was power fight. It was stupid of me to threat her in the old mindset way. Being kind and all. She totally misunderstood some things and I freaked out on myself, for not leading our interaction in the proper way. She was playing hard to get and I dumped her and was ignoring her, but inside I was furious from vanity, because she wasn't chasing me when I broke up, which eventually she did, like any other bitch would, but that was my own game that was played inside of my head. She was the one to initiate the conversation between us again, after a couple of days... I admire her in a way. Than I met with her and talked with everything that was bothering me.

And explained her all the things that bug me about her. When I mentioned she being overweight and me having an issue with it, she was crushed and started crying. She has gorgeous face, but the quality of sex is affected because of that. She is very bonded to me, I practicly took her virginity. I am affected by her, but I believe I am in control of my emotions she senses that I am stronger than her in that and I think that is what keeps her attracted above everything else (and fucking her brains out). I made a list of things that I want changed and told her take it or leave it. List of things I told her she needs to respect if she wants to be with me, take it or leave it. Some of the things she needs to respect are: 1. I am heavy as a person, that won't change. 2. You are mine. 3. If I don't want to tell you something, do not insist on it. And told her she has some time to think it trough. She agreed instantly. Fat nigga was talking about chaning the chubby into something good. I believe I would chode out if I don't try at least, I know I can influence her that much. She's 19... Now I have 2 chicks begging me to fuck them and chasing me for that and I am satisfied with that for this moment. It takes off a lot of pressure from me and doesn't push me into approaching and breaching the comfort zone consistently. I will do 1 approach a day, just to keep an edge. But seems I got approaching integrated in me, I started doing it automatically, and it seems really good...

Sex with the MILF is fucking fantastic! She has super tight sexy body that loads of girls of my age can dream off. She likes being dominated by me. Likes it when I spray her all over her face and is cumming like crazy. In average I fuck her around hour and a half and during that time she orgasms more than 10 times... I am great full to myself for going to gym for past year! Sex is waaaaaay different when you are in shape. Being in good shape is a must for anyone who wants to bang a lot of chicks. I dirty talk her like hell... "Who's pussy is this?!! Who's pussy is this?" She replies with: "It's yours!" I get my dick hard just when I think of her, let alone when she's near. She is hooked on my cock how I've never seen before. I am getting attention and I am in control. When I was in relationship it was always like that, game didn't change much. I am sure that this skillset is not proper for all people and that not all can learn it... I believe I have spot for 1 more chick in my rotation. I am one step closer to achieving my dream, some sort of sexual independence from pussy, but beside that I have other dreams that I need to fulfill...

New Year's Resolution that is quite big needs to be fulfilled...

From Zenmack with Pride :)

2010-01-11T12:01:00.004+01:00

I love generalizations! I really do. This video made me laugh my ass off, but also it kinda pin pointed me in which direction I should be going.

No disrespect for PlayerSupreme, but that was Comedy Central :)

I like attention, it might bring me some more readers to my blog. And I guess I need to focus more on what I am writing and posting more closely.

I guess he really is right when he says my style of writing is robotic, but I just keep journal of sorts for now. Maybe I should really add up value for the

readers, but for that I would have to read some English literature first, it's not same as writing on my native language.

Well, even bad publicity is publicity, so I got to repay the debt to an old man. I will reserve the spot on this post for making a review on his book:

7 steps to become PlayerSupreme. Check out more on his website : http://zenmack.com/

To start of small, since I read shitloads of material in this matter, this book was quite good. It had some shitty introduction that almost led me to stop

reading it, about how players are emotional vampires and stuff like that, really poetic bullshit, but was fun to read "artistic" side of his playerhood.

Unlike copy/paste Mystery Method books all over the place, he actually had interesting points, especially about sex. Made me remember some

things I did well in the past and got me back on track. In bed, you are the one calling the shots, so if you wanna fill the bitches mouth with cum

you don't ask, you just do it!

He has great viewpoint on male/female interaction and why you shouldn't be submissive in relationship, and why you need to be dominant all the

time. He is a bit into BDSM, so that ain't for everyone's stomach, but he's straight about his book, it's not for everyone.

Some of his viewpoints are gloomy and depressing on the social side, BUT since he's black man in US, it's kinda dark enviorment, so I guess that

type of mindset is proper for that social environment. But the biggest idea behind the book is:

Bitches ain't shit!

Updating trough January...

2010-01-11T11:59:00.005+01:00

Not doing that well lately. Feel like I exhausted myself on new years eve. Doing amphetamines was not a smart thing to do... Still need some time to recover myself. Seem like it affects my "inner game", bullshit talk, my self esteem is low.

I had a certain degree of success and I just let it slip instead of capitalizing the chance. Okay, not a big deal. Yesterday I opened few sets, all blow outs. Today I opened just one... No intent in me.

It's a massive diffrence compared to Zagreb sarging a week ago... Need to do something about myself. I feel drained and it seems like multiple stuff are draining me.

Need to empower myself in the days to come in order to get back on track... I guess I shoulnd't be skipping my field reports or dairy or whatever bullshit name we give to it. Need to keep up with myself... Today's gym actually helped.

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Acting trough my intentions... For the first time I feel like a fucking player inside out. Saw the milf for the second time, we went for cofee. Before makeout, we fluff talk. I escalate sexual tension, I am really proud how I did this.

I know that I am in control. I don't have the need to go for kiss, because I know it's bound to happen, but also I know it's anticipation is something that is highly sexual. I am making it clear it's bound to happen, but I am not pulling the trigger. At some point, she starts talking about us, and all the reasons why it's not gonna work... She says that we shouldn't be seeing each other again, because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings, because "nothing's gonna happen". I say I agree if that's what keeps her happy, but why do you care about my feelings? And than:

"Ohhhhh, you thought that I am one of those guys!" - I grab her for the shoulder and start crying on the shoulder pretending that I am chode, and cry about how she left me

She starts laughing her ass off. It's on! I go in for the kiss. It's highly erotic and I like how she is kissing. I can smell pussy from that kiss...

And than, after that I am about to the, what was the initial plan for the night. To try the pull... My keyboard is dying... Need to swap batteries...

Damn, forgot to finish my pull attempt...

Anyway, so we're talking. I question her logistics and call her to drop by to my place. "So are you up to sleeping outside of your bed tonight?" And she starts thinking about it and how her mom would flame her for going to someone else's flat. I plow it a little bit I can sense she's into it, but I didn't want to pursue it hard and be needy about it. So I stop it and I do it cool, pretty proud of myself. She's like I can't I can't! And I say: "Okay, if YOUR MOM DOESN'T LET YOU, than it's cool!" and put on a smirk on my face She laughs as sick, because she's 18 years older than me, and I am busting her balls about her mom. She says that she would like to drop by, the difference between this moment I asked her to drop by to my place and before that moment, is that now she's not thinking about "not talking with me anymore" after that "date"...

I escort her home and we make out on the way there.

Beside that I called out my ex, she was flattering me on my cock. Felt damn good, but I know she's gaming me. Asking her out to drop by to my place for some raw sex...

Day2's and MILF ;p

2010-01-11T11:44:00.001+01:00

Having quite a lot of day2's lately. First with this MILF, than with some other chick that I met last summer, she came to visit Belgrade. Prior to that I was in Zagreb for 4 days and met a lot of guys from the community. My game made a breakthrough there, oddly enough I still have some chode patterns regressing...

Interesting how I kissed the MILF, it amuses me still to remember that. We were at the club dancing, I got hard on from her super tight body (she got abbs, ffs...). I asked her how good of a kisser she is, than she tells me that she isn't the one to tell I respond with: "Well let's find out" It was a brief kiss on the lips, but it putted things in the right place. On the way to the caffe we're holding hands. (this is like 10th time that I take chicks to that place, I got mega comfortable with it, it's part of my routine)

Than we get there, start fluff talking some bullshit, exchaning ideas, normal stuff... At one point I really want to kiss her and get mega stuck about it.. In order to release the tension I literally tell her, you are making me nervous as fuck, she tells me, oh common. I grab her hand and let her feel my pumping heart, it's pounding as motherfucker. Naturally I proceed for the kiss from there.

THAT IS MY MOTO, DO IT WHILE AFRAID:)

That was fucking insane kiss! I can't describe you how good it is to just act how you feel. The major issue I had here is that I didn't have "enough" signals for me to proceed for the kiss. She is quite serious about herself and down to the ground, really strong reality so to speak while I am not on my home turf, even tough I adore MILF's and had prior experience with them.

Than she asks me how old I am... From there situation goes downhill. I mean after all there is 18 years difference between two of us. I know exactly what I want, but so does she. Which she quite frankly told me today while we were texting messages. She's into relationships and shit like that... Cool, but that's not my cup of tea, already got one relationship that I barely handle.

Anyway enough about MILF. I have major issue with sister from my girlfriend. When she's around I react as fuck. No one seems to notice it, because I am hiding it really fucking well, asked me friend from community which goes out with me quite a lot, he says he doesn't notice shit. Well even if there is my reaction it's way smaller than hers! We are 5 in the room, doing random stuff, and she wants my attention. I keep loosing her, but she's like: "Look at me, look at me!" And just seeks my attention, if someone else from the room is not paying attention, it's not a big deal, but if I am doing it, it's always like that.

I hate fucking everything about her personality. She's childish, immature, stupid (not totally, but in a way), not in control of herself, on top of it all, she's sister from the chick that I am banging. And when you put all that on one side, there's only one thing on the other side "I like her".

Is it a fact that she's better looking than her sister? Or just that delusional confidence she has about herself. Or simply that I adore that idea, that she has major crush on me, whilst I am with her sister? Or is that my closing mentality telling me to try to bang every chick I like?

I don't fucking now. Nor do I know what should I do. Easy and pussy way out would be to avoid her sister, which I am doing for quite some time, she came to me and wished me a happy new year. When I came last night to their house, she was the one that opened the door for me, unlike all the other days, when my GF did that...

What I do know is that I want and need to go out more and approach more. Without any questions. I am living in abundant world, which offers me many opportunities...

Love Game Winter Travels...

2009-12-27T12:23:00.001+01:00

I had my share of fails and success in past couple of days. One of the reason I was traveling was this chick and I know exactly what went wrong, but it's cool, but it really obliterated my ego in a good way.

I was sarging for 3 days straight and opened shitloads of sets and learned from all of that a lot! Let's say I opened around 60-70 sets in past 3 days. Got some emails and just played along. Met lots of new people from community and learned quite a lot from some of them.

When stakes are high lessons learned are better! I never had more confidence in my life than this time.

It was hard to play aggressive game in environment that is not my home town, I am to preoccupied with trouble making guys, which in this case are a lot. So it kinda left me down, but made it all more fun, to play along in high stakes and opening mix sets in kinda hostile environment ;)

And now some well deserved music for my fellow players ;)

Cause we are...

2009-12-22T05:06:00.000+01:00

Just some weekend with friends...

2009-12-20T14:53:00.001+01:00

I am not pushing myself into sarging, but I am like full time in mode to hit on. Friday night I went out with my GF and one of my friend. We went to some house party full of cougars. When I stumbled in the room half of those bitches started checking me out.

No matter my chick I still open some random chick 4-5 years older than me. We start fluff talking, she's so drunk and down to fuck. I am gaming her, but turned kino off. Introduced her to my friend. But she doesn't bite it, sticks with me. Damn, wanted to put it somehow that I am here with my gf, plus I didn't like her that much, but it could be free pussy that night, if i was by myself. My gf comes and I introduce two of them, which was kinda funny, because she brought me to that party, lol. She figures the situation straight away and our conversation stops immediately after that. That was so fucking funny.

And Saturday night, went to my friends place. 4 of us, 2 chicks and 2 of us. I figured out that when I don't feel the need to hit on every chick that is in my surrounding area I feel way better, especially if I am not that attracted to them. The blonde one starts calling me fag and I was like: "What, you need blowjob lessons?"

One of those two has insanely good looking strong legs, she's a bit chubby, but those legs look god damn healthy and bangable. Anyway I figure out she's a really close friend of my friend and just shoot the shit without intention of escalating. We talk some and since my friend and I are famous for womanizing, we talk about relationships.

And at one point I say that I flirt all the time. She gets confused expression on her face and I push her leg and say: "Don't get your hopes up!" She gets giggling right of the bat.

The thing I like is that some things are changed internally and I feel like it's congruent with me, most of the things I say. My personal progression is on the level I want it to be.

Damn this pressure from final exam, can't go out freely. :/

Summ up of the year 2009

2009-12-18T03:35:00.004+01:00

Well at this very moment I am very happy. Kinda summing up the year behind me. It's almost 8 months of me infield and had so many crazy adventures that changed and shook my core.

So many new beliefs obtained and worked trough, fears passed away, that even my close friends seem to notice it.

I've been hitting the gym for 10 months got crazy ass results, that I didn't knew were possible and looking bad ass now, which affects my confidence a lot (my health too). I started eating healthier, totally stooped consuming alcohol...

I've got a girlfriend and unlike before she ain't psycho or anything that I've encountered before, something I consider high value person. She may not look good physicly as I'd like her to be, but is a wonderful person, one of the best girls I've been with personality wise.

Had loads of day 2's, some makeouts, roller coaster of emotions with lots of various woman. Kissed more of them than last year, banged some old, will be banging some more of new before the year is over...

I obliterated my approach anxiety and made approaching my way of living. It is fun for me to do so and I love it. I've became mega flirty person who always gets some attention from woman.

I started living in my own flat living on my own and taking care of myself!

And on top of that all I am about to get my bachelors degree and opening myself new opportunities in my life!

When I remember how I had crappy life playing World of Warcraft 12 hours each day in front of my computer... Eaten apart and consumed by radiation from my monitor :)

I have gotten a lot of self confidence, which is backed up by reality. I never really had major problems with self confidence, but back than it was delusional and overambitious, now I have reality and my achievements to back me up.

I still have fears that tend to fuck me up. I still have doubts about me being able to get this done, but I endure! And I will prevail, no matter what happens. I will push myself trough even harder than I was before!

Because year 2010 is year where I will get it done! 365 days of glory and adventure AWAIT ME!

Last weekend :)

2009-12-14T12:15:00.001+01:00

Well first of all I have to say one important thing, I gave my last exam! Wasn't going sarging as usual, just went out, but no matter what I opened some sets.

I blew some sets hard time, I manage to surprise myself how I can make bullshit mistakes in sets that were going nice for the start. I can make an excuse and say that I was tired, but it doesn't matter. I hanged out with my friends to chill off for a bit. It was kinda cool to go out and not pressure yourself into pushing and yet you still pushed.

I opened kinda hard, grabed the chicks ass. I liked it. She started talking with me, saying something like, you can dance with me, but you can't touch me. I was like, wtf, you can't touch me, something like that.

Anyway she said something that I scared her girlfriend few weeks ago, so she won't come to the same club again, because of me. And I was like, WTF!? And completely choded out!

Why I fell into that frame, even if I did scare off her friend? That kinda shocked me to myself when I left the club and figured out.

She introduced me later on to her other girlfriends, but I was fucked there also...

Anyway bad night, but I don't feel bad about it. Figured out that I can still fall off my reality HARD! And than I was choding a lot after that. I find it funny as hell now, but at that momment, I just couldn't believe my level of reactiveness.

So now that my bachelors is almost done I will have loads of time to be in field. Year 2010 is seten up for my seduction and social skills!

I will post a list of things that will be my plan for next year...

Take care

Day2 Report Sunday

I got lazy with writing field reports. It's not that I am not gaming, but some reason, I can't write...

I had day 2 with the chick from last weekend and it was more or less cool. My game was tight as shit, but only thing I could do better was to instead MeVSshe to turn into "WE"!

Other than that, I had insane Eye Contact, awesome kino and went for kiss as soon as possible. She stayed. We were holding hands, but she seems to resists that going in for the kiss, though I know she wants it.

Was kissing her neck, was pretty cool and I felt that we connected on some level. Other than that I can't go into details, I believe it would be contraproductive. Just wanna keep the basics stored down here for the record.

Loved my game and thought it was perfect, now I know it could be better.

Between she just turned 18 and I have a gut feeling that she's a virgin.

Sick video about male/female relationship

2009-12-07T23:16:00.001+01:00

This is a bit gloom and down video, but gives interesting view on courtship between man and woman.

Field Report 05.12. Teenage show ;)

2009-12-07T03:01:00.004+01:00

I <3 clubin

Well last night, was simply back to what it used to be before. Since I had rough week of street approaches I actually thought of not doing any that evening. And just started having fun with some friends, when I notice this chick looking at me.

I grab her just above elbow and hold her like that dominantly. Tell her, if you are already looking at me like that, we could as well meet each other. Release her and give her my hand. My name is EmotionFlow, pleased to meet you.

Immediately I eject. This used to happen to me before and I guess it's right thing to do. I get in back and ask her if she's not underage? (She's 17-18). She says, no. I laugh playfully and push her away from me. She grabs me reels me back and asks me: "What does it matter if I am underage or not?"

I put my hand just above her ass and whisper to her: "Well, if you are underage, I can't be dirty with you!" And grab her ass.

From that point on, everything flows. Massive attraction, but whole interaction is like lasting a couple of minutes. We start dirty danceing, I go in for the kiss, she rejects. I plow some more, but no go. She stays there, dancing with me, allowing me to grab her ass, kiss her neck and going down dirty on her, but that's it. I pick her number up, tell her I am gonna call her tomorrow. Seems like she was waiting for that only, and leaves straight ahead, before me. Like instantly. It was funny to me

I text her immediately. Something like this:

"While you can still remember me, type down my number, so when you that THE EmotionFlow is calling you, you will be sure to pick up that phone. Dream in colors... "

She doesn't reply to that. After that I hitted state and flow of game went of naturally from there for the rest of the evening. Had some email close, which I can follow. With some MILF, for change in another club. Had loads of funny interactions. It was totally cool.

Anyway, I called her up today. She didn't answer. Gives me a missed call, I call her back, we fluff talk pretty nicely and vibing. Finding commonalities, talking about some stuff. Told her to send me an sms with her Facebook info, which she did. Hours after the call, later on in the evening.

Than we started texting each other. And she's quite interesting. Fluff texting, boring stuff, than I ask her, if she's naughty all the time and skips school or she's naughty on weekends, she gives some insanely good response complimenting me hard, which leaves me frankly speechless. Cause she's 17-18 and flirts awesome. When did they learn to do it so fast ffs?

Anyway I think it's solid. Not rushing anywhere with hooking up on day2, since I've got exam on Thursday, so after that I am gonna see, what's she about.

Great time and this feels good to be back.

Field Report 30.11.2009. MILF's jewlery

2009-12-01T02:35:00.004+01:00

Was sitting in a cafe, with some friends. There were 3 milf's with some jewelry on the table. 1 of them was selling it, two others were buying. Got there, asked them if they're selling and I need to buy some to my gf (which I actually might do).

So we start some convo about that jewelery. I number close the one which is selling thank politely and leave. All 3 of them were giving me advices on which one should I take and how should I choose, really warm and polite. That was the first approach for the night.

Had 3-4 solid approaches. Again no #closes, though went for it, whenever I sensed I could, guess it is still miss calibrated.

We were again approaching with "Do you wanna fuck me?"

The chick to whom I told this got really pissed, I busted her balls for that.

-bla bla bla (totally negative vibe, didn't hear the word she said)

"Hey sweety, don't be so negative, you are cute chick."

-"You are insanely good guy" (totally ironic)

"I know, thank you sweetie!"

She got so pissed, it was funny. Me and guys thought it was hilarious. Maybe she had a rough day. Poor girl. Some of my wings reactions were like, totally shocked, how can someone say something like that...

Seems like time to react in order to approach is getting way shorter, but not short enough in my opinion, still need 1 millisecond of decisiveness. When I approached with 100% belief sets hooked well. Gonna keep that in mind in order to improve. And beside that I need to start sensing buying temperature spikes in order to figure out when to #close.

Field Report 29.11.2009. Do you wanna fuck me?

2009-11-30T13:10:00.003+01:00

Unlike last night, this evening was challenge night with 2 of guys from community. We were doing all sorts of silly shit. Set by set... Laughing our asses of.

First set I opened was some blonde chick I asked her if she wants to fuck with me. Than we went to the city square couple of meters from there. In few minutes, her boyfriend approaches me shaking under adrenaline rush yelling to me: "What did you say to my girlfriend?" I wasn't sure who his girlfriend was, cold gazing into his eyes saying: "Nothing negative". Didn't even flinch, he was huge motherfucker, but still shaking his legs. He obviously was furious and needed to grab his balls to do this. He was kinda surprised with reaction, toned his voice and said something: "You insulted my girlfriend, apologize to her."

I gave her hand, and said sorry. She gave hand back, was funny as hell to me. Wondering now, why I jumped into his frame, but it didn't matter, because I could beat his chodley ass off. Actually I felt sorry for the guy in a way. He had a lot of issues approaching me and wasn't sure of anything. I remained totally calm, which surprised me. I didn't stand back, just long cool gaze into, like everything is under control. They left immediately.

After that it was approach fest. We were giving more and more challenges, one after another. It was jack shit to approach at this point and trough out the rest of the night. Loads of funny things happening, we ended with some free popcorn from some random chicks. I had a couple of good interactions, though I freaked the fuck out some group of chicks. I went in too much direct and I guess they thought I was some psycho or something, too much intent or something. I am 1.9 m tall and well built, was wearing long dark coat, so...

After the challenges ended, I actually approached some chicks asking them: "Do I intimidate you?" I guess it was state related, later on I was way more relaxed than before...

I felt like I am shit for past couple of days, but my wings are telling me that I am improving. Well one thing is certain, I am motherfucking approaching machine, fearless what so ever. Can crash into any set any given time. Though, now when I got that shit handled, I want to pay attention to some results. Didn't #close or kiss close in quite a while, which is totally demotivated me. But my wing kept my happy side, I guess he can see it better than I do.

I noticed that you can kino a lot right of the bat. There was quite some kino involved in some of the challenges, so it kinda struck me how close you can get.

I am kinda happy about this, there is large dose of consistent, and some new sticking points that I will handle.

Field Report 28.11.2009. Part 2 Blow Out Night

2009-11-29T15:41:00.000+01:00

And from that point on, everything went downhill. Maybe I had a good reaction or two, but it was about that. I was approaching like a motherfucker, but state couldn't come. High point of the night was when I opened this young girl around 18-19 years and got really close to her face and some vibing.

After that it was like: boom, boom, boom... Stepping into the minefield

There was this chick that was bored and sitting in the chill area, was busting her balls like a mofo, but no chemistry between us. Bantering her and it didn't went smooth.

One situation that I loved was when I approached some nice bitch and told her that I adore her in front of her 2 friends. Chode was just standing there confused and her girlfriend started laughing, but that was as I go, maybe should have stayed longer in that set. At one point I pulled one of the guys from community and we've set in the chill area talking.

I think that was the best interaction for the evening.

-"Hey girls, you can't sit there, it's taken!"

-"Oh sorry, we won't."

-"Nah, you're cute, you can sit!"

-"You are so RUDEE!"

-"What's that about rude guys, that you fall for?"

Than she starts kinoing, but I am on such a low energy level at this point. That it's horrible. They sat beside us, but I couldn't push myself into talking.

There was one set in front of the bathroom and I so choded out. Girl sitting by herself. Her's name is Maja, kinda got my own routine for that name, asked her if she knew what does her name mean on Arabic, she said river... Close, it's water, but anyway... There was also some cutie dressed well, who I complimenting like there's no tomorrow. At one point I say to myself rather than to her: "I am complimenting you too much"...

It was such a crowded night and full of guys all over the place. This was a complete turnover in comparison with last Saturday! Maybe I opened triple amount of sets, 10 or so. But I didn't take any interaction in any particular direction. I am fucking up with number closing I didn't even see any point at where I could successfuly kiss a girl.

It was fun in a way, to meet all the other guys from the community. Doctor, one of the guys was getting such blowouts, it was insane. I felt bad for him, how could he feel if I felt this shit about not getting it done.

I have doubts and seems like I have some blindspots, that need to be handled. Would love to have a mentor in all of this, but I don't know anyone experienced enough to even consider helping me in all of this.

One of the guys from community told me something about my rough night in next context. You had a bad night mate, it's cool, now compare it with your bad nights prior to the game, when you knew jackshit when you had bad night, it was bad night, and you couldn't know what went wrong...

Field Report 28.11.2009.

2009-11-29T15:35:00.002+01:00

BOOOOM!

I was approaching like a motherfucker tonight. During the day I opened some chick in the gym, with something that was high risk, went well, fluffed a bit. To open in gym was a barrier, because I am there everyday and kinda don't want to fuck up my social proof there, which is true bullshit, because I really don't need to care what anyone else thinks of me, so I took a baby step toward liberation, there are other hot chicks that work out, why not approach them.

In the evening I met up with 8 guys from the community. I organized entire gathering, some people were missing, but it was cool. I was late, couldn't find a parking lot, barely did it. When I arrived they were chodeing around and talking about the game, some of em, met for the first time. I came in, introduced myself to the crew I didn't know and went opened some chick with: "I like your hat." Convo went from there, I wanted to pull her with us to the club, she politely rejected. I went in too fast again... Damn I seem not to take this seriously enough.

After that, guys went to the cafe and me and my friend went to approach sets on the street. For the rare ocassion I opened 2 set without anxiety. I Believe that was the best set of the evening, vibe and state wise. I opened my target with: "May I meet your friend, she seems really cute" While eyefucking her totally. I found out that my original target is not that good chick, so I swap to friend.

Anyway, eject again. I am starting to believe that I am approaching just for the approach itself, without intention to push trough. I guess that is my new comfort zone that I need to break.

Than entered the caffe and guys were chodeing around about M3 model, NLP, routines and outter game stuff. It was boring, but kinda people were getting to know each other and sharing their goals, sucsess and failures.

Than we went to the club. I opened some two barely legal chicks. It was on till one moment, me in her face and everything was cool and next momment I blew it, don't know why, just felt it.

After that I opened some chick, over my shoulder, she tells me to turn around (away from her), I tell her thanks for inviting me. Tried to plow, although it was blowout out from the start. She started mentioning her BF and that he's behind her and she was serious about it.

My eyes are collapsing, I am gonna finish this story as soon as I wake up.

Street Game Field Report, Married Woman Day

2009-11-24T06:16:00.003+01:00

I was out with 3 of my wing friends and boosted their state during the entire day. It was excellent, loads of us making progress. I was unlucky with approaches or rather to say that the niche that pick my eye are mainly MILF's and I had a total of 4-5 approaches to married woman, which is insane.

One of my friends was pretty good with numbers today. While we others got zero. Anyway fearless way of approaching is still on. Nothing important that I have to write about, except that there are some mistakes that are going to be weeded out.

Field Report 21.11. Saturday Night Fever Part 2

2009-11-22T20:11:00.002+01:00

So when my friend blows it up, we leave that club. We were supposed to meet some other "player" guys in some other club, but their cell phone went dead and we didn't want to pay entrance fee, when there are tons of free clubs around.

Anyway when I was saying hi to the brunette, squeezed her hand, she squeezed back, it kinda filled me, filled me with love, love of interaction with all of those nice chicks that I want to bang, love of them and love for them. They are such a beautiful creatures, reacting to the world around them and having a goal on this planet like everyone else, just other means of achieving it.

Since we get to the next club, it goes a bit downhill. It was insane how we dealt with bouncers. I was on telephone and my friend just pretended how we're supposed to be in and we've got in. I was like all super important on phone and not even paying attention to the guards and they've just let us in. It was smoking hot inside, filled up with chodes mainly, but there were fancy sluts as well Met some friend of mine, picked her number up and we fluff talked for a while. Busted balls of her friend, while my wingman was approaching some set. I enter set and unfortunately his target is like all over me. It seems like he blew it off, but she was onto me. We fluff talk there for a while, but since these were ugly bitches, they didn't hold on my attention for too long. Dunno why he opened them in the first place, we're approaching sick sets, not some second grade chicks

Anyway I try out to open with my bag. Asking chicks for the opinion if they think my handbag is gay, or super gay. I do it just for the fucking fun of it. Not getting the reaction I want to though :/

So we leave the club, on the way to the car I hear 2 bitches talking on english. I yell, hey girls, we are not prepared for that, we need to meet you first, before THAT! They turn around and start to gigle. We start fluff talking and all the time we speak English instead of our mother tongue. This is my field and I bust shit mercilessly vomiting words on them. I game uglier chick, while the other one gets attracted. My friend is not best with English, but we agree on going with them to some fucking 5th club of the night. On the way there I fuck up with the number close on the uglier one. I dunno why I even bothered asking her for the number, but I loose it. It was something about the weed, and I was like, let's smoke weed some day, and she went all like NO, NOOOO I am trying to quit! I was confused with that shit, how can such an ugly chick reject me for number, when I was pulling way better stuff with hotter chicks. Anyway after that we're at club entrance, start talking Serbian and we swap. I get on the other chick, hear her name kept calling her name and we flirt a lot, body language is cool and everything goes smooth until I tell her that she's silly.

She disslikes it, but it's something EVERY chick I ever got hooked up with loved. And it got me confused. I know she's reacting, but why not to that. And I was persistent, cause it's part of who I am to tell stuff like that. Need to detach myself from such things. Anyway I couldn't ask for the number, cause I already asked her friend for it, though she didn't hear it. My wing, wants to eject, it's time to go home and my time to see my girlfriend.

Anyway the way we hugged was something that will keep really dear memory for that night. It was completely something that made my night. I regret now that I gave a fuck about her friends opinion and she not giving me number. Anyway I am never gonna #close ugly bitches again not even for making a mentality of #closing, if I don't like the chick I won't call her anyway, so...

This was my step up. Nothing won in this evening's process, except I helped my wing properly get his chick down. Clubs become my playground. I see something that I didn't knew I was being capable of and had loads of fun in the process, like I hitted 2 blotters of acid :p

Field Report 21.11. Saturday Night Fever Part 1

2009-11-22T18:31:00.002+01:00

A friend picks me up and we go clubbing tonight. I wasn't thrilled because I wasn't dressed perfectly and on top of it all, I wasn't shaved. Going to clubs with beard FOR THE WIN xD

We go to some place around 23:00 and it's empty I approach some people that were there just for the sake of opening, we leave. As far as I remember we were constantly opening the sets on the streets asking for the directions to the club and for the fun of it.

We go to another place. It's around 23:20, it's also empty. Only 2 noticeable targets were 2 blondes. We approach, I can't even remember what we said. We start talking with them and somehow. I remember doing some standard kino push and pull on both chicks. One of them is wastly unreceptive, the younger one, which is huge. I noticed my friend kinoing her as well, and she was resisting it big time. She was as tall as me, like 190 cm, which was awesome to me. I tried to dig in for the number too soon, rejection, i was like what the fuck, my current judgment was telling me that it was okay. But since my friend was doing okay I was winging for him. In the blank time I was fucking around with chodes around us, looking for a boyfriend for her and playing fuck, marry, kill.

That routine is a kicker. And chodes entering the set as well! I was laughing my ass off, how the guys whom I introduced to her were so out of the zone of what they should do. It was so funny and I think that impressed her, although it was not my intention to do so.

There were some insane flirtations, while we were dancing. I liked something about her, but I think I overnegged her at some point.

He ejects with his girl and goes for makeout, they get back, do a makeout in front of us, and I try to pull it off as well, because my chick was all freaked out that they got together so quickly.

I grab her, reel in and say, well let's not make an exception out of you as well and go in for the kiss. And she gets freaked out in some strange sort of way, like she is excited as fuck that it might happen, but that's not something that she wants to allow to herself. Well that's at least how I fealt it.

My friend, number closes her friend and we leave. I am on after this point, I went in for the kiss in 20 minutes interaction, not something I would usually do. So literally after this I am on FIRE! We approach some more street sets, constantly keeping the interaction with the environment. I am literally glowing!

Constantly opening sets in front of clubs, getting into clubs without reservations, befriending boucners. We go to this second venue, which is full when we arrive. Some serious hot chicks working at the entrance start flirting with us, we bust their balls and enter down. Not comfortable gaming chicks that are working, dunno why.

I skip few sets, this is new area for me, never been in that club. Open some set and it doesn't hook, not some insane chicks, so I don't really care much. I find 2 BEST LOOKING GIRLS in the ENTIRE FUCKING CLUB! They are at the bar, and some 3 chodes in suits stand behind them drinking some fancy expensive drinks, trying to initiate some talk with them. I just move them away and go directly to blonde one.

"Hey my name is EF!" and that was it! We're hooked, my friend hooks her brunette friend and it's on. I literally see envy of the chode guys behind us, who leave right after a few momments. Sorry guys, but I've got batter chances than you unshaved, than you in the suits, haha

Anyway the blonde one is kinda reserved, she is totally cool to hang out with. Me and my friend swap for a moment and I introduce myself to the brunette. We fluff talk, and start talk about horoscope.

-Whats your sing?
-Capricorn
-OMG! NO!
-What's wrong?
-I can't hit on you now, you are same sign as my mother!

At this point she starts laughing as fuck, but starts qualifaying herself to me. Starts busting me that it's like incest than, something like that, but obviously attracted to me. So I see it's ON and it's fucking ON! So I go on like this:

-Ok, ok, I give you another chance. Whats your sub-sign (dunno how you translate this, but I hope you got the idea).
-Scorpion
-Omg, get over here! (Reel her in and go on for the kiss)

She gets away, it's like 45 seconds of interaction. She moves her head and gives me a cheek. At this point I push her away from myself and we proceed like nothing. My friend pulls me and says we switch back, he doesn't know what exactly to do with a blonde, and I am like to him, but I am doing well here, and he's like no, you chose your target and I want to get back to mine. I am like, okay wtf, whatever...

Approaching to the new chapter of my life

2009-11-17T20:39:00.002+01:00

I locked myself in the house for the few days until I finish this exam shit. Not going out anywhere until I settle this stuff. Passed one exam this month, 2 more to go. It will be most that I gave in one month.

After that I am supposed to go to masters degree. I believe this is going to fix my inner game a lot, after I accomplished something important like that, after all it's 4 year investment.

Some married chick that I was making out this summer and with whom I stayed in contact started acting all bratty today on fb, I told her to fuck off for that behavior. It's not about game, when you have some things that you don't tolerate. I feel quite happy about it. Before I would just get sick on it I guess. Lesson learned, no game modifying for married chicks. My consideration can get misinterpreted as chode behavior or whatever. I've let it go and feel happy about it.

Stumbled deep into Jeffy's book, practicely loving it. I was too into material late days that I forgot what my vision is and kinda got back to it.

Worked out in my house today, because I am not going to gym, in order to save time for more studying. I am motivated a lot and keep lots of pride in my push up's on hands only, with my back and legs on the wall. Something that separates me from the rest of the people who don't do shit for them selfs.

The end of university is quite near and I am happy about it. Some things are going to be different soon. There is a proposition from my father to go and work in Vienna. It's in really strong company I believe it's gonna be good experience for me.

This seems like my period when my life is getting in the place where it should be. I need surpass that and move above it and make the fucking myths and legends!

My gf is gonna drop by to my place tonight. Gonna fuck her brains out.

Next FR when I am done with my faculty.

Field Report 13.11. Eyes Wide Shut

2009-11-14T12:06:00.003+01:00

Uf, glory day... I am exhausted!!!! Had loads of approaches and can't remember half so far. There was this one approach that I'am proud of! Anyway I am gonna state how all went, accurately as possible.

First I've got myself into talkative mood, again, just by saying random hello to chicks around me and I keep getting good responses and hello back. Than I went and asked some chick if she can tell me and my friend where can we eat? She was really polite. We take a walk and approach city square.

I find a glory chick, go hard and go direct, that is like first approach. I keep plowing, she tells me her name, and she's like "I am waiting for my friend". It's quite akward when you go in hard during street game (it was evening, so I can't say it's practicely day game).

The chick gets embarrassed and tells me she has a boyfriend, I reply: "But I am not interested in your boyfriend..." I couldn't handle the pressure after this point and therefore I eject. Somehow I fall into their emotion of uncomfort or it's vice versa, I don't know. Anyway I got into reaction. It's somehow funny, you are there in the moment and recognize the symptoms of what you are doing wrong. She was constantly smiling though and I felt fine because of that.

I get back to my friend, we sit near by. We talk about him doing his first approach, and he's stuck. I like the kiddo, he's super cool, but has problems with AA, his game is fine in social circle, but on streets he gets totally confused. Anyway I tell him it's easy and open up with total random bullshit the first chick that was near us. "Hey hey, we need your opinion, we're having a discussion here... Who lies more, man or woman?" The chick replies... Execution was perfect, I could stack on from there and kept talking, but it wasn't the point in that particular moment.

We see this incredible blonde, from a far she looks like a 9. I am petrified in a way. Trying to push my friend into doing it, he doesn't want to. Fuck it, she's cool. I go in and I go in hard and keep 3 things in mind:

1. I don't fucking care what everyone thinks of me.

2. My game is fucking 10.

3. All the chicks are into me.

And I approach her directly.

"Hey I find you interesting, want to get to know you better. My name is EF."

She gives me her hand, but doesn't give me her name. She kinda gets frightened, and this is where I surprised myself! I step back and put my palms up front, like totally non aggressive. Like courtship between animals. This keeps me in game. She starts smiling. We start talking. I start busting her balls. I tell her she's shy, she says, that she's not used to meeting people on the street. At this point I figure out that she's made up for tonight, otherwise she would be 8. I tell her something about hair, complimenting her, and wonder how come other guys don't approach her, something like that and accusing her that she's seductress. I went in for the number too soon and asked her 2 more times for her name.

Damn, dunno why I did that mistake. It's not a first time that a chick doesn't tell me her name and I dealt with it in the past by giving them names I want and immediatly from there goes into role play, dunno why I fucked it up this time, doesn't matter. I keep strong eye contact and I can sense attraction spiking. She starts asking me questions.

"How old are you?"

"What do you study?"

...

And those other bullshit chodes would ask chicks.

I bust her balls, tell her she's maybe infected with swine flue and push her away from me, she giggles there.

During the entire convo, my hands are shaking a bit. I am having huge adrenaline rush, but kept it under control, feeling was insane. That feeling itself, created insane vibe. Got me under the influence of the whole thing. We talk something and she figures out that I am with my friend. And than I tell her that I can't leave him for too long, I felt stupid for leaving my friend too long alone, but it was mind fuck, stupid excuse, justified in my head, should have kept plowing. Stayed in set sooo long... I believe I was at hook point.

She asks me what's my zodiac, I tell her my zodiac, ask her hers, she tells me she's <3rd> and than I bust her that she's dangerous. She asks why, i respond, that her sign is great in bed, she starts giggling...

So in the end I got where she's university, how old she is and her zodiac sign, but still no name, nor phone number! I was too aggressive at start, where I was supposed to build attraction and cool off the harsh get in. I believe it's more suitable for clubs, rather than for streets.

At the end I kiss her in the cheek, she doesn't get away. I was inviding her personal space after 4-5 minutes of conversation. After that I am just glowing and walking on pure adrenaline.

Than some random shit on streets, nothing serious.

After all of that street gaming I get on some private party. Instantly I hook up on some 3 set. Get there initial attention and we shoot some pictures. It was maskenball and I was one of the rare ones not in the costume, I wasn't planning to go there anyway. I bust some balls in that set and at one point I start loosing things to say. I sensed some vibe between me and tenis girl (her costume). Girls give me the roll of her manager. Than it's totally off when I leave my jacket and I don't get back into the set.

From this point everything goes down. My energy level gets insanely low and I am still tired. I was busting some balls of the other people on the party. Few crappy blow outs. There was one chick dressed up as a guy, I tell her I would never figure out she is a girl. We vibe a bit, than she gets cocky, and asks me why am I not talking to other chicks and says she's hitting them all the time. She assumes I am gay and I acknowledge it and start touching her. She freaks out and stands away from me and leaves. Brings in some chode and chode starts talking to me, she says I am gay. I start touching the guy, guy gets weirded out, she gets turned on. I chat a bit with a chode. He tries to amog me, I just laugh unreactivly. It's somewhat silly I don't take it personally, assume he had too much to drink, he's dressed into football player. After that I see the chick checking me out a couple of times.

And when I am about to leave I go and say hi to tennis girl, she's really sad that I am going, that moves up my state (still Dependant on external validation) and say hi to "school teacher", who is actually a friend from high school. I bust her balls for the costume, she loves the way I kino-ed her straigh away for lower back, I think it kinda turned her on, she got super sexy in her voice. Looks way better than she usualy does.

Anyway now that I am rewinding the party I don't know why I left, but for some sillry reoson I couldn't push myself anymore out of my comfort zone. Chicks were receptive, but I was off.

One of those great days, where I pushed myself pretty hard. Proud of myself, a lot.

Just a regular day... NOT! :)

2009-11-10T22:27:00.003+01:00

So I got really inspired by Jeffy-s new book, even though I didn't read it trough and trough, it just pushed me to approach like a mofo!

And I took a big step out of my comfort zone. I approached a chick, that is intimidating me. She's goth chick, but that kind, turns me on for some reason So I approach her go direct, just say my name, and the response is chilled. I say some stupid reason for approaching her, and she tells me her name. Think she was kinda flattered, but not interested. We started fluff talking about some books that she was looking, that were sold on the street... I was way out of my comfort zone here, but I tried to bust her balls. I ejected, went to the gym, couldn't handle the pressure and at the end she was the one to tell, was nice meeting you....

I sense how much uncalibrated I am regarding the cold approach and tons of those mind fucks that you have and that inner convo, was really low this time, so I sense progress from there.

After that, during this day I had lots of approaches. Like somebody pushed me into it. Ball busting chicks in some random conversations. Now that I am back to where I was, I know it's the right time to step the game up and go for kiss closes and numbers.

Still the guideline is Tyler and his "I don't give a fuck about what anyone else thinks of me, it's their problem"...

Someone else will deal with it, I am just gonna be myself, sexual being and assertive...

Confidence will go up during the process.

This wasn't planned, all of these approaches happened during my regular day activities. And that's what makes me kinda happy. I wasn't going to sarge or planed to approach, I just did it.

There's still loads to go, but some first steps need to be taken.

On my way back home I started ball busting some random chick, nothing special, so I didn't want to take the convo any further. But it was pro, made me feel like a king.

I had approximately 3 decent approaches and couple of crappy ones. Which is impressive for me in 1 day.

Well, since my skill level is not high enough, I will need to satisfy with fucking my girlfriend tonight, no new pussy until I start stepping the fuck up properly.

Adding value to the community!

2009-11-08T20:14:00.002+01:00

I wanna share this book with you! Whoever wants a copy of this genuine book, should leave a comment on this post or send me an email to emotionflow13@gmail.com

It's a collection of field reports from famous Jeffy.

I will update this post when I read this book entirely but I am 100% sure that it's worth reading! I know it's gonna become a classic, like "The Game" or "The Mystery Method"!

Keep tuned for more value ;)

Field Report 07.11.2009.

2009-11-07T04:42:00.000+01:00

Somehow I am getting back into the game bit by bit... And my confidence starts to grow. Last couple of days I just started off with saying random "hello" to chicks that pass me by. I wasn't pushing it anywhere, but got positive response I think, because of good tonality. And than it struck me tonight. I entered the club, which was half empty and my friends weren't there. Grabbed a drink at the bar and sat at the table with 2 nearest chicks. "Hey girls you are my company for next 10 minutes..." And conversation went off naturally from there. Two of them were telling me what they were doing etc etc... It was quite cool, but really didn't like them, so didn't intend to push it anywhere. After that I was choding around with my crew, dancing and talking with them, cause they were the reason I came to that place. Went out to eat and outside I saw her. She wasn't that much of a chick, but I liked something about her a lot. She was quite tall, black hair, goth type and reminded me of some chick. Crossing the street and heading straight to her, full intent. "Hey, hey, you seem really interesting to me, I wanna meet you!" She smiles, "I am EF" I keep proximity and start talking random bullshit. She starts defending that she's 16 and that it's her bday tonight. I kiss her cheek and congratulate her birthday. I keep plowing and pushing and she laughs at it, seems kinda flattered. If I had more guts, maybe I should have kissed her straight away. In the meanwhile, her father comes to pick her up... That sums pretty much it, BUT it felt awesome. My heart is pumping different tonight, like I made some significant breaktrough in life or something, can't explain it, other than that I am extremely happy for some reason. Is it cause I got validated or because I pushed my limits back to were they were... But it feels damn good! :)

6 common myths about fitness and working out

2009-11-02T11:11:00.002+01:00

I know all of us fell into this hell hole before. I surely have to admit that I was one. At first, I never checked my diet, never checked my form, and so on. However, as time evolved over the years, I started taking my training serious. Real serious to a point where I was competing at a top level for bodybuilding (not professional since I didn't win my card yet).

Complaints and myths:
-Lifting at higher reps will get me toned.
-I'm eating over 3000 calories but I'm still the same weight.
-Muscle turns into fat if I don't keep lifting.
-If I keep lifting the same, I will always look like this.
-I can eat whatever I want and still look the same.
-Feeling sore means my muscles are growing.

Okay, I hear this bullshit all of the time from people who just started out or are lifting that don't know jackshit about what they are talking about. It gets to me at how people take a simple thing and make it so technical.

Anyways, here are the answers to these complaints and myths:

1) Lifting at higher reps will get me toned. Nowhere near true. Getting "toned" (by which I HATE this word) is pretty much losing bodyfat. Lifting at higher reps will build more endurance for the muscles as it would twitch the white strain of muscle fibers. Rep ranges for strength, hypertrophy, and endurance are as followed: 1-6 reps is strength training, 6-12 reps is hypertrophy training, and anything more than 12 is endurance training.

2) I'm eating over 3000 calories but I'm still the same weight. It just means, "Eat more." I hear this complaint A LOT and there really isn't a complaint like this that should be around. I made this excuse, but after having a bodybuilder's trainer help me out, it makes sense. Just eat more. If that isn't enough, eat more.

3) Muscle turns into fat if I don't keep lifting. Muscle is always muscle... However, if you do stop lifting, your muscles will wear out and start to deteriorate. It's called atrophy. It's always good to keep working out though, 'cause we can see a lot of positive things out of that like progress and motivation.

4) If I keep lifting the same, I will always look like this. Aw hell no. Whoever lifts the same all the time really is killing himself, 'cause the body will just start to wear down after being so used to lifting the same. Always keep the body excited and surprised so gains can remain or progress. Change workout routines everything 3-5 weeks.

5) I can eat whatever I want and still look the same. Well, you are what you eat. Want to be a fat ass? Eat like one. Diet is 80% of what we look like in general since our bodies contain nothing but chemicals anyways. However, if you're taking training serious and want to sculpt your body, diet matters the most. Always keep diet in check first before lifting.

6) Feeling sore means my muscles are growing. This would be DOMS (Delayed onset muscle soreness). DOMS can be anything. It can be good or bad. A good pump should only be for a couple of days at most. If you are feeling sore, bad chance that might mean that you overtrained and overtraining is bad for the body.

Credits to Hagman from Start Being forum -> http://forum.startbeing.com/

Chode Regression Pattern...

2009-10-31T06:16:00.001+01:00

Why do we regress if we don't approach consistently?

After 2 months of non-approaching I again have some shit form of AA, some shit form of blockades when I am about to kiss close and things like that...

I believe that some of you guys have an explanation for this. I just don't feel well when I have drawbacks in my game it makes me feel kinda frustrated, but also keeps me in drive for trying more.

I made some moves, my verbal game is up to the task, but, that kino momment, when you need to reel in and grab a girl, make a critical move I get stuck in my head and block myself shitless. I am not 100% sure, I am not 101% decisive! How to get there? Grrrr..........

Having a gf is like a curse, rather than a buff...

Random FaceBook turns out...

2009-10-22T20:26:00.003+02:00

... I was sending a friend request to this chick I found cute. Going direct and...

Turns out that I already approached her and she still remembers it. Asked her out for some coffee, so let's see what turns out of that...

Matrix view on Seduction ;)

2009-10-17T02:00:00.001+02:00

06/10/2009 Blown out times... :)

2009-10-07T11:05:00.003+02:00

This was an interesting evening. I was out with my friend who got into seduction trough me like week ago. I am thrilled by his eagerness to approach. His attraction is quite good, but he gets stuck when it's about touching a girl.

We went to some Arabic caffe to smoke some nargilas and went on to approach some chicks there. Not much of a choice so it was up to me:

"Hey girls, wanna hang out with me and my friend? It's his birthday!"

I jumped trough some hoops, which I didn't like and biggest mistake of all is that instead of bringing them to us, we came to them.

Well they invited us over and location was better, because it was more private.

And it was longest stick in the set ever. To hang out for 3 hours with some chicks we've just met is quite an epiphany for me.

I do regret that I didn't went for the kclose with the chick I liked. I choded out at the begging of the interaction that I took. Don't know for what reason. Turns out that those 2 are SF geeks and Mensa members...

At one point I needed to get out of the place for 30 minutes, my friend wanted for us to stick there. Hell even wanted to stay there himself. I didn't want that to happen. So I followed him trough.

After we came back, we got accepted with cold turkey.

It amazes me, how at one point, it can be ONNNNNNN and so fucking ONNNNNNNNN... And next momment, we're landing ground zero :) They were offended because we left or what?

I don't even care, it's never about them, it's allways about YOU!

I am not motivated enough to write this field report in detail. But I learned something about myself and that counts.

03/04/09 Field Report

2009-10-04T13:40:00.007+02:00

I went out to some party with a friend who is kinda newbie in the game. It was some birthday and lots of girls he already knows. Lots of his girlfriends were approaching him and I was kinda hooking from there. Didn't make any approaches, but had loads of interactions.

At one point I wanted to approach one chick and instead she comes by to us. I grab her elbow and pull her in, full intent, she got scared or something. Asked her name and it's off...

Bit by bit I was halfway getting into state. Some blonde cutie hit's me remembers me from some other party 2 weeks ago. I grab her by her waist, stand there a bit, busting her that she's too aggressive. Teasing her and she's all over me. My friend does nothing to her friend and they pull out.

After a while whole bunch of them, comes to dance with us. Blondie teases my cock with her ass. It was kinda a nice, cause beside feeling good and doing nothing in particular we were surrounded by chicks.

I pull the blonde again, when she was near us, kiss her on the chick telling her that we're leaving. Grab her really close and start touching the back of her neck and keeping her really close. She puts her head on my shoulder and stays there for a while, was emotional moment to her I think.

I didn't leave my comfort zone, but it's nice feel that things are going on. Nothing in particular happened, but it left some impact on me as an event.

Need to push myself way more into cold approaching.

Which I did right after. We went after to grab some food. There was a chick behind us.

"Are you from this neighborhood?" -"Yea" -"Can you tell us where XYZ dinners is?" -"Are you busting my balls?" -"No, I am not from around here." -"Where are you from?"

At that point we got into convo, but right after we got to the place where we wanted to eat and I naturally ejected, without much thinking. Because we've arrived to the dinners we were after, invited her over, but she proceeded. Guess not enough attraction for her to stay, nor for me to pursue ;p My friend was kinda shocked how I had massive attraction right off the bat. To be frank I was kinda too. Keep myself surprising how woman are responding well to me. Kinda think how it would go if I was longer in the field, guess I am gonna find that out...

01/10/2009 Field Report

2009-10-01T22:27:00.006+02:00

Well I won't keep this blog only as blog, it's gonna be a personal diary of seduction to an extent. After one month break I decided to get back to field, because FIELD IS KING!

Don't get me wrong, I didn't waste month, I had 2 fclose's and I got a "gf" now. Well I didn't make anything official, but I see her on consistent basis.

So after the long break I decided to get back. And I am way worse than I was before. Not externally but internally. When you are good internally even when you are bad, you are not affected by bad result, but you strive for change and learn fast.

For some reason I am really having old issues, like AA and shit like that. I still need to break my reality hardcore, not to protect my ego. I need to step up to my own level that I knew I had.

Consistency, like in the gym. Consistency is what brings results, not fucking ego protection.

I do not care what anyone thinks of me!

I had just a couple of approaches and I was blown out hard time. And I was angry about it. Anger comes from ego, which is not satisfied with the result he gets, but we are not preoccupied here with the ego, aren't we?

Giving away huge value completly free!

2009-09-25T16:10:00.007+02:00

If you are new to seduction and pick up I am giving you ultimate links that will save you MONEY AND TIME on how to progress in this. First of all, here is little something that kept me motivated in my initial days.

Since I am huge fan of Real Social Dynamics approach to seduction I am going to give you something that Tyler Durden wouldn't like me to give you. Here are the links for all video seminars from RSD. If you would buy this it would cost you hundreds of dollars.

So here goes:

Link to Foundations Superconference: http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/4004994/Real_Social_Dynamics_-_Superconference_-_Foundations

Link to Transformations: http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/3882483/Real_Social_Dynamics_-_Transformations

Link to Blueprint DeCoded: http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/4078149/Real_Social_Dynamics_(Tyler_Durden)_-_The_Blueprint_Decoded

My All time favorite The Jeffy Show: http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/3965093/The_Jeffy_Show

and Tim's Flawless Natural Method: http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/4319130/RSD_Flawless_Natural

If you are new in this, these links alone provide loads of value and enough material to get you in field. If you are advanced it will pin point you why some canned material you are using is giving you results and direct you on what to do next.

Keep yourself motivated, keep yourself in the game!

The summer is over...

2009-09-23T13:01:00.007+02:00

We won't have much opportunity to show off with our sexy bodies around. Dunno about you, but in past six months I got ripped apart and I completely changed my visual appearance regarding my body. I can't post pics with before and after, but in a year I lost 20-22 pounds.

Autumn and winter are ideal time for preparing yourself for the next season if you are just starting.

So let's talk about what brings results in gym. It is three things.

Commitment

Pushing your limits

NUTRITION!

Commitment

People asked me how I got myself disciplined so fast? I kept myself motivated. Getting into seduction community I knew it was kinda a lie when they said that it's not about physical appearance. It is to a certain extent. If you don't look good, you need to make it up with some other areas of your personality. But changing your personality is a bit harder than changing the way you look.

Regarding the looks it's not really about how you look externally, but it's all about your internal validation of yourself, when you look yourself in the mirror and you say to yourself: DAMN I LOOK GOOD :)))

So I was inspired by Tyler Durden's (Mark Oven) speech about commitment to the results.

It doesn't matter if you are tired or if you are lazy, or you just don't feel, you must go out!

It is all about making healthy habits. You can't expect to look extremely better in a month, results take time. And you have to KNOW that.

So let's say you are tired today and you don't feel like going out to gym, you should push yourself just to go and you can say to yourself that you are gonna to the light training, just to make a habit out of it. 97% of the time when I said to myself that I am just gonna do the light training I did a complete one and felt way better about myself.

I like this song and it keeps my state pumped up for gym and for sarge also.

Pushing the limits

If you work out as a pussy you will look like a pussy. PERIOD. It will take ageeees to get you the

results you want. Get someone to sit over you while you are pushing your bench press and when it's

the last series and last repeats of the excersise, than do 2 more repeats! Your limit is when you

feel muscle ripping apart and acid pumping trough and making the pain! Learn to love that pain.

Learn it as a signal, that you did a good work out.

If you feel like that the weight is not giving you enough pressure, be sure to put on more weights.

If you can do 12 repeats in one series, than it's time to add some weight and lower the number of

repeats.

Test yourself! Always on the last series add some more weight and try to give your max. If you push

it with same number of repeats than do that weight next time you do the same workout.

Always hit the pain! Pain is good :)

Some from the guys in my hood are doing workout openair. And the biggest guy explained how is

he doing his thing. "I don't count how much repeats I did, I just work until my pain hurts, make a

break and than do it again."

Nutrition

Nutrition is the key to your health and your looks. If you eat good and quality food, you will feel way

better and with higher energy levels. You will need to learn which food is rich with carbonhydrates

and fat, and which food has lots of protein. Making a healthy diet is essential for your looks.

Combining the good workout and good nutrition will get you ripped apart like an animal. You don't

need to take steroids in order to look like Brad Pitt or Christian Bale! (body wise).

I will write a lot about nutrition in my future posts so I will keep that area covered.

But to sum it up, if you want results, you need:

Commitment to working out and making a habit and lifestyle out of it.

Pushing your limits and not working out as a pussy

and eating healthy (and having good night sleep).

Absolute Freedom Concept

2009-09-20T20:58:00.004+02:00

There are some big changes happening to me lately and they are happening fast and accumulating. For this moment I know that I am not sustaining myself. My way of living is covered by my parents and most of my needs are resolved by them, which won't continue to be the case.

There is no freedom until you live under your roof. I can't stand shit from anyone, neither I will.

I don't want to justify my behavior to anyone. I want to take full responsibility over myself.

Doing my own laundry, preparing my own food, washing my own dishes... When you put it that way, there aren't female/male jobs anymore. The ultimate deal is, you are either sufficient or you are depending on someone. If you depend on someone, than guess what, there aren't freedoms for you anymore.

So I decided, instead of whining over my problems and issues, I am gonna solve them myself. There won't be anyone taken accountable for the actions I partake, except myself alone.

I sense the difference when you are taking care of yourself. It is vastly uncertain, how my next day is gonna look, it shakes my foundations, but life is taking a risk, and freedom is worth that risk. Final destination for the time being is:

One of the most important things is to have a goal and I know mine. Do you know whats your goal?

How does this correlate with mine or yours game? First of all, when you are responsible for yourself I think you start to appreciate stuff you've got and do not take them likely. I used to run trough life taking things for granted and living in some carefree environment, but I've got it for free. When you are responsible for yourself completely, you will have that vibe that you can handle yourself trough life and beside preselection, be it internal or external, you will just draw woman to you.

So you need a "cave". In YOUR cave you need to have the food, which YOU hunted! And cave needs to be nice. So when you pull like this, you want the woman to stay in YOUR cave, at least for a little while :)

dontclick.it

2009-09-18T04:11:00.005+02:00

This is something really FUN!

This site is pure gold. It is fun to navigate around it and yet it's new expirience. I totally recomend to visit it, because it's much fun. Thumbs up and backlink from my house.

I just wonder when will the day come when we will have interfaces like this one :)

Enjoy dontclick.it

So EmotionFlow was born...

2009-09-16T17:46:00.000+02:00

Lately I was reading quite a bit about Internet Marketing. And thus made a decision to spend some time into it and see how far I can get.

Idea behind this blog is to give value to the readers and to spread the words and ideas as much as I possibly can. It is about lifestyle that I am assuming.

So for starts I opened up accounts on forums on whom I was regular, on all of them with same nick, same adress and same avatar, along side with new gmail adress on whom you can freely contact me: emotionflow13@gmail.com

When you focus on woman, you need strong motivation to stick to it. This area of many males lifes is widely neglected. Woman invest Far more time on attracting man than man do on attracting woman. So instead of getting this one girl I want to be able to attract most of them into my life.

In previous past weeks I had certain sucsess in that, but than I realised that I have certain criteria around woman that are not surrounding their looks alone. My criteria are getting clearer and I am not satisfied with the first thing that drops my hands. I am trying to be quite sure that I posses the same qualities that I expect in the girls I am trying to attract.

For past half a year I was packed in a gym and dramaticly changed my look. I introduced rigorous work out regime for myself and beside the looks factor it makes me feel much better around myself, but still not good enough to massivly effect my confidence.

I ussually hit the gym 4-5 times a week, trying to modify my eating habbits and doing good job of it. Learned quite a lot about metabolism workings and nutrition, which will be some of my topics to discuss in future. All because I want to look something like this.

This day I spent at home, planning some things. Good organization is one of the pillars of sucsess. Time menagment on the long run, can make you so much free time and I want to see it for myself. Currently my organization is awful. I am just persistant around gym and writing. Work on my book is slowed down, but it will get faster I promise that to myself.

For next couple of weeks all my energy should be devouted to finishing my faculty. Diploma will give me stronger self of myself and acomplishment.

Remember, there is not enough time for us to do all those amazing things if we don't start doing them RIGHT NOW!

I am playing the game

2009-09-16T13:04:00.000+02:00

I am writing my in-field diary for 4 months. For past couple of months I have done a lots of things that I would never do previosly.

Lots of calibration took place and it is still ongoing.

I never took a bootcamp. Since I am living in Belgrade and none of those happend here and I can't afford one with my weekly allowance, plus you would have to add a travel expenses...

Last night I tried to kiss close against all odds and failed hardly. And I felt happy for breaking trough a barrier that I had.

I was thinking If I had the gutts to do it, every other time before that one, when I knew it was ON! my life would be diffrent in many diffrent ways... Previously I #closed her so I knew I did lots of stuff really good. It was 2-3 minutes interaction.

Today I am kidna chilling. Not taking any action. Just relaxing in my room.

There are a lot of things that I need to find out about myself.

Most important thing is that I started to move out of my bounderies. The biggest inner problem I have is EGO PROTECTION!

Even when I was massive chode, that never approached any girls I had this huge ego that made me think that I am so fucking high value, that there is no need for me to approach, so I would only end up with couple of chicks that were really into me.

My ego just didn't allow me to take any risks. And I was seeking for validation from the surroundings too fucking much.

But when you have a vision of yourself, clarified in your mind, about who you are now, and who you want to be tommorow, the path itself will be crystyliezed.

Breaking reallities all over the world

2009-09-16T03:20:00.000+02:00

Journey of self changing has began.

This is a diary of a devoted person which is striving for change. It will be anonymous, because most of the things that might end up here are not named in order to protect peoples privacy.

General topics will be: Pick Up (a.k.a. The Game), Gym and Fitness, Fashion...

Emotionflow states that his posts are only about the fictional characters portrayed in this blog. Any similarities with real events and/or persons, living or dead, are purely coincidental.